Makes perfect sense. Thanks

I want both, but then again if you have a great love, won't everything else be great too. I am not sex crazed but you know when you are in the beginning stages of getting to know someone and all you want to do is be with them in every sense of the word. I like being around him a lot, but I don't have that crazy sexual urge. I am curious, of course. Maybe I am just more mature than in previous relationships. I don't know. Does thatmake any sense?

Yeah, I don't know what my thing is either. I have liked different things with different people.

Thanks, I am just scared that a good one will get away. Maybe the whole attraction thing is my self sabatoge. An excuse for it not to work.

K, I have known this guy for almost five years. We dated before but never had sex. He was so in love with me, always telling me how strongly he felt and viewed me as the one that got away. He was in a bad place and I ended things. He had always contacted me, here and there. I never responded until now and we got together as friends. Now he is right back to telling me how much he wants to bee with me. We have great fun together and have so so much in common. BUT, I am not that physically attracted to him. I have always been in relationships where you just wanted to jump each other's bones all the time. Will that attraction develop, am I being stupid and holding out for the non existence fairy tale. Ugh, what should I do?