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Tue 06/30/15 02:02 PM
Ah am fairly new here so appoligize if the topic has been done before, i was curious :)

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Tue 06/30/15 01:50 PM
:)

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Sun 06/21/15 05:01 PM
yeah but still not the same, i prefer more consistent chat

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Sun 06/21/15 04:52 PM
nah its not the same

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Sun 06/21/15 04:43 PM
Do chat rooms

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Sat 06/20/15 11:32 AM

people call me conceited.

Conceit is a fault.
And I don't have any faults.



A man without faults ?? Is there really such a thing!!

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Thu 06/18/15 07:33 AM

It's a sure sign they didn't bother to take the time to read your profile. Happens a lot. I call them out all the time.


You can set limits to who can contact you.



Oh really ? how do i do that ?

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Thu 06/18/15 07:32 AM
Its actually getting quite annoying Lol

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Thu 06/18/15 07:26 AM
If a woman put an age preference on her profile for whats she's ideally looking for, then why do men below or above her age preference messages her ?

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Thu 06/18/15 07:21 AM

I too have difficulty defining my "type" of man. There are certain physical aspects that will draw my eye every time, but if all that person draws is my eye... I've met people and not had an immediate physical reaction, but after getting to know them found them extremely attractive.



Very true for me also, it takes me a few dates/conversations to actually realize if i'm attracted to a guy or not, looks are not really important but i guess there has to be some initial attraction there for me in the first instance, personality always wins everytime

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Thu 06/18/15 07:17 AM
Its better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone...

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Wed 06/17/15 03:20 PM

a big no no for me is a show of violence or love of it or love of sadistic movies and rudeness as well, even if some kindness is thrown in it is still a turn off, also nit pickiness griping




I couldn't agree more

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Wed 06/17/15 02:19 PM
When choosing a partner are you fussy ? would you settle ? As far as flaws go, whats a big no no ?

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Tue 06/16/15 05:50 AM
And the original question ... women without curves is like jeans with no pockets.. was not my quote but a quote i found on the net so i was therefore asking not telling

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Tue 06/16/15 05:48 AM



Ok here it is....men (like women) like what they like. People like different sizes, heights, hair color, race, whatever.

I happen to be a thin women that does just fine. Many with curves do just fine. Why pit them against each other?
So screw the personality as long as woman have a few good hot spots they should feel good about themselves. I think that's what your saying here.


Personality is important as well. My point is people have all kinds of preferences when it comes to looks. I was referring to the OP




My point i was making is that no matter if you are slim or curvy, if you aint got a good personality then you don't come across as attractive to most people, talking about men and women here..... And most peeps seem to be attracted to the typical sterotype what society has portrayed as "right" what i mean't was most curvy women get overlooked cos of their size....

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Tue 06/16/15 05:38 AM
I am slim but would love to have curves ;) I need more jeans with pockets

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Tue 06/16/15 05:31 AM


A woman without curves is like jeans with no pockets..... you don't know where to put your hands! ;)


Hmmmm sounds like a joke to me. Either way....it's putting 1 group of women against another. Almost like saying 1 group is better than the other. I just don't believe that. Women are beautiful no matter what





No one was putting anyone down or making jokes, the original question was about personal preference, everyone's an individual and for me it don't matter what anyone looks like, if they aint got a nice personality then they're ugly anyway, slim, skinny, fat, curvy whatever...

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Tue 06/16/15 05:28 AM
Edited by Harleybarley on Tue 06/16/15 05:30 AM



Ok here it is....men (like women) like what they like. People like different sizes, heights, hair color, race, whatever.

I happen to be a thin women that does just fine. Many with curves do just fine. Why pit them against each other?


personal preference is personal preference but some curvy women get overlooked cos of their size, personally for me personality wins every time regardless of body shape





See that is what I don't get. I see many curvy women doing fine. But why put the other side down or make jokes to make curvy women more enticing?

Anytime I see fat jokes, I can't stand it either.



People need to stand on their own and feel secure with themselves

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Tue 06/16/15 05:25 AM

YAAAYYYY....just checked my jeans....they all have LOTS o pockets !! :wink: laugh happy tongue2


mine too :) yaaaayyyyy hehe

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Tue 06/16/15 05:14 AM

Ok here it is....men (like women) like what they like. People like different sizes, heights, hair color, race, whatever.

I happen to be a thin women that does just fine. Many with curves do just fine. Why pit them against each other?


personal preference is personal preference but some curvy women get overlooked cos of their size, personally for me personality wins every time regardless of body shape

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