Funny I've been here for a week and you were one of the first to say hello....Bored?

Yes.....any guy can make a child but only a real man can raise them...this quality is unique because for me majority of the men I've watched in my life feel its the womens place and all they need to do is go to work....But theres something about a man that is willing to step up to the plate and actually participate in his childs life that is a complete turn on....And I don't mean the men that grab their kids and hang out to get attention from women, I see it happen all the time, but I mean the ones who are really there for the kids.

Twinkles...

Walked away.... I wonder how he is every now and then...

Thats some really great advice...Be strong.....although I truly hope that its not because of all the outside influence that your no longer togeather.

Spooky....

my real question would be is my other half happy?

Sorry but no, you could do your most and work at it with all you got but in the end would it really be worth it..no matter how hard you try to fit a circle in a square it will never happen unless you change one or the other to fit...In the end its not fair to either one.

Funny, didn't know there were islands out there....

Okay so wheres my other half???

You are blessed....to have this relationship with another is truly a gift...it gets a little complicated though for others.

As much as I try to deny that there is no such thing..I am constantly proved wrong and I am starting to realize running only prolongs the drama..

Believe me when I say your not the only one who feels that way...Its the survival instinct..

Or better yet if you do what would you do to find them???

Just wondering how many are out there looking for their other half.

If any of these worked then count yourself blessed...

I believe this is something that will show more in the actions of the person in question....Anybody can say they love you but only through their actions will you see the truth.

I don't know about the good blow job thing....Men are just as bad at gossip then women so he might just share your secret with the rest of the pack then I'm pretty sure hes not the only one that gonna be thinking about you...

Can I change that to Good Men.....I ask myself the same questions...Actually got proposed to by a gay guy, that I honestly loved but not in the intimate way and I will never forget that. He would try to talk me into marrying him and I asked if we would both show up in a dress...LOL. He is the packaged deal, everything you could want in a man yet he loves other men. We never had sexual relationship but in all other areas we were good for one another. I don't know....when you get a reply that makes sense let me know. This is a question I ask myself alot. Not so much handsome but a really good man.

Ignore them... It's in my personal experience that the more you ignore him the more he seems to pay attention. Most men do the opposite of what you really want them to do.