Welcome and best of luck... alot of us are single and have
been for a while, but there will be somebody popping thier head out of
the wood work soon... have faith..

trouble by keith sweat
:P

Welcome one and all!! (psssst... did I miss anyone?)

Here lies a man that lived alone and died alone.. "Sucker"

Sana: you are correct on that. And I appoligies to all the nice women
out there. I have seen it for my self, I have a friend that was done the
same way and is a female. so you are right, it is nice women as well as
nice men who finish last. But since 1989 its been hell trying to find
that "right-Nice" girl to share my life with. been through 2 divorces
and since my last, I have been through 4 other relationships and they
all turned out the same! It "Does" suck to be me! :P

Well the problem with that is I lived in a big town most of my life.
Population 450,000 +.I DON'T MISS IT!! lol by far I actually enjoy the
smaller towns.. :)

Lorne

lol well thats one thing that I have alot of, Time... did a search and
only found one person that was remotely close to me.. (like with in 25
miles...)

Is there "ANYONE" here from Southern Illinois?????????
or am I all alone? :)

lol Welcome to the other side!! hehe

Oldsage, you have a point, But from my ex, it seems kind of difficult if
the other party isnt' willing to try. And expects you to do everything
for them. I have begged and pleaded with her to communicate. And I am
one for communication. But her idea of listening was to sit on the couch
and watch tv on all her spare time. I don't agree with it! I think if
you were to try to work things out you would listen and communicate with
one and another to work out a problem.

Tammy; I don't doubt that it is the same on the other end either hon,
but I can't speak from there.. lol

Its a simple Fact, Nice guys always finish last as to my experience. No
matter how much you bend over backwards to help the one you are with
they are never satisfied. Or they just want more.

From my experience; I have cooked cleaned watched kids work 10 -12 hour
shifts. And all I wanted was for that person with me to cook on her days
off to give me a break. Was that so much to ask? I didn't think so, but
apparently it was. So here is the contiplation; Is it fact or fiction
that "Nice Guys" always finish last (or ever finish at all)

I feel even though this is a good idea, alot of kids are going to get
bored or fustrated with school and eventually drop out because of the
time laps in school. Think about alot of us being in school, how tired
and drained we were and if we had to be in that much longer. Now even
though I dropped out (due to have to work for a living) I know I would
more then likely not have tried. I hated school as it was.

Howdie all.. lol :P

Howdie Rascal44, welcome.. I am new here too.. :)

Oh and btw... a few have asked or wondered where I get my nick from well
the Si, is Southern Illinois, and the Thumper is what my daughter
started calling me a few years ago cause ever time she got a smart mouth
on her, I would take my finger and thumb and flick the back of her neck
to make her mind. (at least its harmless) and she started calling me
Thumper... lol

Well I just want to say thank you to all of you that replyed... man what
a warm welcome, and yes I do know that there are still a few good women
out there. Otherwise Iwouldn't be here.. lol I have the faith as they
say.. so I will keep coming by and post as often as I can. There is alot
here to read and catch up on so bare with me, and I will get the
postings in.. :)

Well I am pretty new to the dating thing. So here goes nothing. Hello to
one and all, I am a divorced Male of 2 times. Both failed but I strugle
to continue with Life!!! I am Looking for a woman that is close to where
I live, and in hopes close to my heart! It seems as this site is pretty
good.
Thanx for the time... (even though its my time... lol)

To reply to sweetklp40:

I don't think that is the case of men cannot commit to a relationship. I
know that there are some, but more often then none, I have found that
there is alot of women out there that cannot commit either.