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Confused temptationresistanceduetouncontrolableurgetoeatM&M'S jealousofalltheM&M'syou'reeating! buti'mwillngtoshareifyouhelpmewithyourlaundryanddishes You're EATING M&M's WITHOUT ME????? 
onoIambusted 
*sniff*wearesooooOVER |
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Did the BBQ ever commence?
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The Beardy-House - part 61
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Now whenever I see turtles I'm going to think of Emily the turtle lover!
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temptationresistanceduetouncontrolableurgetoeatM&M'S jealousofalltheM&M'syou'reeating! buti'mwillngtoshareifyouhelpmewithyourlaundryanddishes You're EATING M&M's WITHOUT ME?????
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Yes! My 7-year-old daughter loves it when Mommy makes pancakes on Sunday mornings!
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Topic:
The Beardy-House - part 61
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Morning, Beardies! How is everyone this delightful Sunday? The weather here has been AWESOME! I can't believe it's July and we've hardly had any really hot, humid days.
Hey Beardies!!! I had lunch today with Chrissy and Mark and Emily (singmesweet). They are all phenomenal people...and so much fun! I had a blast! Can't wait to do it again! 
I don't think I've ever posted in here... so hi. Lunch was lovely. Great to meet Bonnie, Chrissy and Mark. 
Hi Emily!  It was great to meet you too! I had a blast! 
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I could not believe my ears!
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I have heard that word used a lot. My oldest son's best friend in highschool was a black boy. And he used the word a lot untill I asked him not to in my presence. Respectfully he told me why he uses that word and also agreed to my wishes. Having said that, I agree that as a group of intellegent people we humans as a whole have become very unforgiving of others mistakes. ( I am not talking of murder or robbery here ) Yes, I am talking about the spelling police, profile police, word police and so on. And we do it rather rudely at times under the guise of a joke. What ever happened to the addage of " Do un to others as you would do un to yourself."? And just treat folks that make a mistake with a certain degree of decorum and manners and help them learn from such mistakes. And not berate them in public. Er...not sure whether this could be classified as berating him in public. He's not a member of this site, his name was never mentioned, and the dating forums on this site are chock full of references to people we have dated or talked to or whatever, whose actions we have not agreed with, be it people who don't call when they say they are going to, people who cheat, people who are rude to their waitress, etc. |
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I could not believe my ears!
Edited by
Tootsweet13
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Sun 07/12/09 08:11 AM
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Someone actually used the "N" word to me today!   
I am IN SHOCK!!!!!!!!!!!!! If there's anything I can do for you in your time of crisis PLEASE let me know! Uh, yeah...your sarcasm is noted, mister.  If you are around that kind of talk all the time, and it's okay to you, by all means, enjoy yourself. For me, I don't think it's okay, and I dont happen to want that kind of attitude in someone I date.
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Topic:
I could not believe my ears!
Edited by
Tootsweet13
on
Sun 07/12/09 08:10 AM
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Okay I have to ask this first of all you quit talking to someone cause they used the N word that in fact had quit dating a girl due to she had dated someone black in the past. This same guy has a friend that is not only black but gay as well. Is that correct so far? Now the only reason you quit seeing him is because he used the N word is that correct? I must say that I myself do not use the N word and my kids were raised the same way. But..............I live in Texas I actually met a guy several years ago that I became involved with that did use the N word he was from Alabama. Let me tell you the way he used it was due to he was totally raised different then I was. Even though we were the same age to him those he called by the N word was not always black they were those that were lazy and thought that the world owed them and many times they were white when he called them the N word. Yeah I did take the time to explain to him the way I took the N word. What happen is he had enough respect to understand the way I felt about the N word and did understand my feelings about that word. All I can is he stopped seeing someone because she dated a black man and you quit seeing someone because he used the N word where does it stop. When no one is willing to give another a chance for something they did or said? Just a thought of mine. 
Um, no...not only because he used the "N" word, but because he is that intolerant that even when he was just TALKING about it, he was angry. Just telling in telling me all the reasons he thought black people were inferior, he was getting riled and raising his voice. And it wasn't like I was provoking him, I was just listening. You're acting like yeah, he said the "N" word, he made a mistake, can't you forgive him? Of course, if it slipped out and he didn't mean it, sure I could forgive him. But it's not about making a mistake, it's about his belief system. That's completely different. We would all like to think we don't judge others, but the fact is, we DO to some extent. The whole screening-out process is a form of judgement. It's how we determine who to date and which person is right for us. We know what we like and don't like for in a potential mate. you do realize that the klan claims to be a christian group and they use the N word all the time. people can claim to be religious and be really far from it. IMO . . . WAIT a second...if you are implying that I think that religious groups should be held responsible for the actions of one person, let me clear that up right now. I do NOT think that, and the only reason that I brought up the fact that he is Christian is because I had originally used that as a partial basis for thinking he was someone that I wanted to date. He was always telling me how he puts Christ first in everything he does, he's the choir minister, he dedicates his time to helping others, etc. So I really had a great opinion of him at first. I brougth it up here,I guess, to demonstrate why our conversation yesterday seemed a complete contrast to what I knew of him up until that point, and how disappointed that made me. Of course, EVERY religion has it's good people and not-so-savory people. You can't rationally form your opinion of any religion based on someone whose actions you don't agree with. |
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Topic:
What is romantic to you?
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 Romantic is... holding hands
knowing looks middle of the night calls pillow talk bubblebaths comfortable silences playing footsies sharing ice cream kissing
I could go on and on... I agree...holding hands is romantic. It says a lot about a couple when they want to touch as much as possible. |
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You have three wishes that will indeed come true, what would they be? Be careful, we do get what we wish for. meet you have a child with you grow old with you. 
whoa... I'm past child bearing years my friend. 
Woah. I would have bet money you were like 20.
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Topic:
I could not believe my ears!
Edited by
Tootsweet13
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Sat 07/11/09 06:07 PM
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I'm not racist...I hate everyone equally
And we hate you! Ahhh...balance and harmony in the universe! Totally feng shui. KIDDING!
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Topic:
Does size make a diffrence?
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Bottom line is, who gives a sh**? Let this thread die already! No way, man. I'm gonna make it my own personal mission to keep this thread alive until 2010.
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I could not believe my ears!
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Last year I was seeing somebody that I thought was nice. Yeah, I met him online. We're friends now. We were talking on the phone recently and he told me that he's a Democrat but he voted for McCain because he didn't want a black President. He really said a "N" President. I was shocked! I was so glad that I wasn't in a relationship with him!! WOW! I don't blame you! There's only one race....the human race. Exactly!
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Topic:
The Beardy-House - part 61
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You too! I was gonna say, I haven't seen you around here. It's nice to have you back! I've seen some of your posts...you seem like a nice, fun chick!
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Topic:
The Beardy-House - part 61
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Awww yay!! 
Hi Alicat! I don't think I have ever met you. I'm Bonnie.
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why ?
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Maybe they got mocked in the "Rate My Profile" forum. I've seen it happen! Spiders scared them away!!!!
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Topic:
The Beardy-House - part 61
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Hey Beardies!!! I had lunch today with Chrissy and Mark and Emily (singmesweet). They are all phenomenal people...and so much fun! I had a blast! Can't wait to do it again!
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why ?
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Maybe they got mocked in the "Rate My Profile" forum. I've seen it happen!
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I could not believe my ears!
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uh...its used quit frequently...your just not around everytime its used...which is a good thing 
You're right. I have not heard that word used in probably 15 or 20 years. Maybe I've led a sheltered life, I dunno. |
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