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Wed 08/12/09 01:46 PM
Hey Beardies! How is everyone doing? flowerforyou

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Wed 08/12/09 01:45 PM
Chases rainbows, convinced he will find the pot of gold that will make him rich!

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Sun 08/09/09 03:02 PM
Thinks shaving with a razor is "cheating", prefers to tweeze each hair individually.

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Sun 08/09/09 09:20 AM
Beach! Long time no chat! Love the new fully-clothed pic! :wink:

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Sun 08/09/09 09:13 AM
choked on a grape at his last Toga party

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Sun 08/09/09 07:06 AM



why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?


I want a nice guy who is an animal in the bedroom. Is that too much to ask?


RRrRRrrRaaaaaaaaAAAAaarrrRRRRRRR devil


YES! I've found him! Online dating DOES work! Thanks, Mingle! laugh

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Sun 08/09/09 07:00 AM
Sully's sidekick, who carries around his cans of spinache and a can opener.

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Sun 08/09/09 06:55 AM

why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?


I want a nice guy who is an animal in the bedroom. Is that too much to ask?

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Sun 08/09/09 06:53 AM
Coined the phrase, "A marshmallow peep a day keeps the doctor away".

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Sun 08/09/09 06:48 AM
Edited by Tootsweet13 on Sun 08/09/09 07:09 AM

I try to think of myself not as an optimist or a pessimist but a realist. I realize that if I do not find someone particularly attractive, then the relationship will not proceed anywhere romantically. It's just a matter of personal preference, really. Obviously, if somebody who is not "my type" messages me seeking just that, how do I let them off easily, without seeming shallow? Do you believe that such a preference makes me shallow?


In my opinion, if you are really struggling with this, it's best not to reply to them at all. If you ARE able to reply kindly without insulting the person, do that. But if you do, don't be so blatant in your rejection. There is no need to say "I'm not interested". I think the nicer thing to do is wait a day or two to respond, and then send a friendly, detatched email: "Thanks for your email. Hope you're having as much fun on Mingle as I am. Have a great day!" or something like that. Dont' ask any questions or say anything that requires a response. Most people will take the hint. If they don't, and they email you back, don't respond. If the person continues to send you unrequited emails, then tell her you are not interested.

And to answer your question, it's not shallow to not be attracted to certain people, based on thier looks. It's human. However, if, when you look at someone, all you see them as is "the fat girl", or "the ugly girl", then yes, you are shallow. You don't have to be attracted to someone, but you can still realize that they have value as a person.

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Sun 08/09/09 06:36 AM
Ha! Can you imagine? Gross!

Holly can't drink coffee without Kaluah (sp?).

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Sun 08/09/09 06:22 AM

Makes sure there are exactly 25 sprinkles on a donut before eating it.



mingling while eating her Captain Crunch! Morning Toot!!!:banana:


Morning, Holly!! flowerforyou I wish I COULD eat Capt Crunch! I had oral surgery a few days ago and my mouth is still really painful.

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Sun 08/09/09 05:36 AM
Flicks tiny bits of green Flubber at people, making them think it is boogers.

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Tue 08/04/09 01:20 PM


LovetheLord is bogarting all the hot men! WHAT GIVES?? :angry: :wink: laugh


Hey Toots! I have some m&m's for you! Can I be a hot man? flowerforyou


*ears perk up* M&Ms, did you say? Fresh ones? Cause if so...you've never looked hotter! love

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Tue 08/04/09 01:18 PM
Hi Beardies! waving

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Tue 08/04/09 01:16 PM
Is one of the OTHER wives on the show! The one with twelve chidren!

((((Ro)))flowerforyou

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Tue 08/04/09 01:13 PM
Edited by Tootsweet13 on Tue 08/04/09 01:13 PM
Is addicted to the TV series, "Big Love". :wink: laugh

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Mon 08/03/09 04:36 PM
Wants me to french braid his hair.

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Mon 08/03/09 04:04 PM
Uses leeches to cure a cold.

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Mon 08/03/09 02:04 PM
owns a bikini made of bottle caps.

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