I have been in that same siuation before, but I realized I would rather live my life truly loving someone then to live my life filled with those things. When you die, none of those "things" will matter, only the love that you have found along the way will...

I don't think that men are the only ones afraid of commitment, we shouldn't just assume that because one, some, or most are afraid. I know I'm terrified of commitment, but only because I have been hurt time and time again. I truly believe that if the right person entered my life, I'd be willing to chance that fear, but until then I am okay with being afraid of commitment. It's protecting my heart. I'm sure that's how a lot of men and women both are.

"Sometimes it is better to forget how we feel and remember what we deserve."