you want this in plain english?...ahhh, ill give it to you in plain english anyways...no hard feelings...

first, you got played...you became his little toy...which makes him a player...

secondly, he never broke up with his gf...it was just an excuse...and he called you when he got bored...then he RE-approached you, just to see if he can do it again...literally.

third, you let it happen...u should know better because he is only 21. you and we all know, that young people still have to find what they want, and who they really are...u were an experiment...literally.

fourth, his gf never knew anything of or about you. and she still doesnt...and she doesnt know of the 'other' girls also...you were just a number that he messed around with. but let me assure you, that your name is well known in his friendship crowd, as he will pride himself with exaggerated stories of you and him. literally....

I can go on....but you get the picture...why do or why did i say those things?...because at one point in my life, i was him.......i know how people like him work and why they do it...i know every move young guys like that make and i understand it by reading your detailed story...it so reminds me of myself 10 yrs ago....I, changed my 'playa' status because....i got my own medicine....and i for once, felt how it burns....i am living proof, people do change....but let me assure you, that what i said, is all very very ture....

sorry....

Her Smile

what a pretty smile atlgirl!!

Also, I am of the opinion that guys are more open and apt to call or contact you sooner, than the other way around. Girls generally give mild hints that they were interested, and sometimes like to play a little game right off the bat. A guy usually won't do that. If your not getting any response from him, just cut your losses, and consider it his loss.

Sometimes men are just fickle hun. It probably had nothing to do with you, maybe he just had a great time and wants to keep his dating life open since he had so much fun. Don't take it personal unless it is obvious, not all of us are complete assholes :)

Have a great Day

Yea...until their first email entails something like this: U R Hot! Wanna fok?

UGH! It's enough to make ya' craaaaaazy!

i remember doing some drunk emailing last night but the face dosn't ring a bell

someone emailed me lastnight talking about us being soulmates Dude doesn't even know my name

I agree

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