I have learned the hard way that people don't always feel for what you feel for them, and sometimes to them its all about what they can get from you and out of you, nobody is honest anymore, no one just says hey doll don't love, don't want you, it is actually very simple and a lot less hurtful then finding a really skinny ladies underwear in your bed, lol those thing you can actually get over it always more about you should have or could have told me, respected me enough to be honest with me. So I am just looking for someone with no hidden agenda, who is funny, smart and wants some who they can grow old and gray with, who knows how to respect others, and off course likes winnie the pooh.