I can so relate. I broke up with a relationship of 20 years and moved out of the country. Only cuz I have very cool parents who took me in. Nine months later i am still alone and have yet to find someone. It doesn't help that i am new to Colombia. But one of the things I did was join this website to meet some cool interesting people. I have met some nice ones but unfortunately mostly scammers. So be careful as I am being. It is easy to fall into traps when you are vulnerable. Good luck to all of us going through the same thing.

Yeah no joke... Try meeting someone on this site, communicating for a few months and then when it comes time to meet, all of a sudden the mom gets sick and in the hospital and he needs money to meet me. Yeah right! So how do we meet guys that are for real and not out to scam you?