So lets hear it IamWhoIAm1.

What is your most attractive feature?

Right you are.

Money carries people away into a fairytale, inspiration carries people away into a fairytale, charisma carries people away into a fairytale.

People want to give-in to their desires, they want to be safe, they want to live a dream and they long to be lazy. (to name a few)

Every choice surely contains a compromise, but it is not all about the looks all the time. We're all seeking a life we can enjoy more than the one we currently have.

I am shooting for an Empty Spot in Space.

A Prime Piece of Cosmic Reality, with Nobody in it but Me.

Perfection, just like the "nice guy", never win. It is all the flaws that build the character, which creates the potential for drama that women are so attracted too.

Right?

My intellect.

Everyone likes me for the wide range of useful information I have. I don't think this trait is easy for people to see at first, well; until they have a problem and I have a useful idea for them...

Answering this question should help us to better understand why people would want to date us. This in turn will help us to use the site effectively in finding good dates.

Don't be modest. State it clearly. Name your attractive feature.

Your text is well-organized Tatilove! I have tried adding visual breaks to the separate ideas in my profile text, but I liked your titles for separating the ideas. You have a very good profile.

I just looked at your 18 photos! That is exceptional! You have many good ones in there too!

Ok, now I will go back and read your text...

Self-promotion is difficult for normal, modest people.

I have been struggling with my profile text for a while. I want people to hear how I really think, so the person who has spent a lifetime seeking me can recognize me as the one they have been looking for.

If anyone would be willing to share their opinions about my profile, I would appreciate both positive and negative feedback on it. I just rewrote it.

Thanks!

I prefer to stick with Logic and Lust.

Trust requires some level of faith in the person. Why do you want to believe in them? Such expectations set us up for disappointments. Whereas in Lust we can offer what we want to offer, and in Logic we can accept what is being offer to us. Our mind is not confused in this state.

Gold flowers bloom with Mercury Petals

I'm thinking of emotional alchemy. The melding of emotional states together by checking one emotions negative traits with another's positive traits to yield a hybrid emotional state.

For example: starting with Logic and Lust. These are often the beginning of thought. They can then evolve into Desire and Passion as the person who started as an object, becomes more of a person as we start to forma a bond with them. Then, with care, we can produce the Hybrid forms of Desire and Passion by carefully using them to check each other, which makes Righteousness and Compassion. Then we can seamlessly blend even these together until their individual functioning cannot be discerned to produce a single form of energy. (Which is the elixir.)

Then we just smile like everyone else does...

This could probably use some additional explanation, but lets see if anyone joins-in to help me. There is a lot of alchemy throughout history.

Yes I have.

Have you ever chugged a beer to find a cigarette butt in it?

Dream Theater "Pull Me Under"

Seek the real in the artificial; pick the gold out of the sand.

A hug softens the rough edges when my mind is inflexible.

Hi

That's all I've been putting in he majority of my messages when I've been trying to initiate a conversation. It's lame I know...

It makes me uncomfortable trying to speak "the language of love" (insinuation) with people. Insinuation is natural with people I know well, but I feel so petty trying to use it with strangers.

I'm here because there is someone trying desperately to find me. I know they'll recognize my voice.

Are there different kinds of elixir'��s?

How is it made?