hi I'm in a relationship for a year with my bf I'm bi and would love to spend a night with a lady just a night is that cheating?

Not if you take him a long to join the action.

If you do it without him knowing about it, yes it is cheating. Certainly not fair to do that to your partner.

But if you talked to him about it and he's okay with it, then no, it isn't.

From how you put it you did't talk to him, so you're considering doing it behind his back. So that's cheating for sure.
Remember...
Do not do unto others what you would not have them do unto you

If both parties in a relationship are not on the same page , I would say it's cheating ... period!!!!

This is so simple.
Answer yourself this question..'Can I tell my steady about it?'

If not, well, that's cheating.

Talk to your boyfriend and see what he thinks. If it's something you feel you need to hide from him, then that's your answer.

I'd dump you. If he's not good enough it'd be inevitable anyway - why waste the time.

If you are bi, unable to understand your relation with BF instead of any lady.

Samba ac

That's your own personal question and your own problems . You have to answer it Alone .

Are you seriously asking or just trolling the internet for a hook-up?

How would you feel if the rolls were reversed and your BF was feeling flirty for another guy?

I'd rate this post as a big AC.

Is your bf aware that you are a bi?

i would be ok with that i would like to be there tho

Who scared her into deactivation, was it you Moto?

Yes these time Moto Sir scared her off..

Of course. It’s okay to look sometimes. We have eyes, we can find someone attractive but if get physically attached or emotionally attached to them it’s different story.

User deactivated but the thread topic is still pertinent.

Some people who are bi choose to think of their 'bi' status as a special 'given' which permits them to be intimate with any 'bi' friends as long as they keep their hereto relationship exclusive to their current boyfriend/girlfriend or they keep their gay relationship exclusive to their established partner.
They believe their 'bi' status is a free pass to having FWB.

Cheating is associated with betrayal. A bf/gf exclusive relationship is thought to be exclusivity with the bf or gf and as long as they do not stray to another bf or gf, they are not cheating.

In an intimate relationship it is either agreed or implied each partner will be exclusive to the other. Honesty and trust bonds the relationship.

In a FWB relationship it is either agreed or implied there will be no exclusivity between the two. Physical sex is what bonds the relationship.

Promiscuity does not have relationship status. A person has sex with anyone they choose without bonds.

If you are in an intimate relationship with someone, whether BF/GF...BF/BF or GF/GF, any break in the bonds which established the relationship is a violation of trust. Often this betrayal is accompanied by lies and dishonesty. Someone usually gets hurt.
Only thru honest communication with your partner before and during the affair can it be possible to preserve your relationship but your trust bond will certainly take a hit because you broke the exclusivity agreement which established your relationship. If you really love that person, why would you do such a thing?