let's share our views about this.

Not an issue if everyone is being honest!

Some people don't want marriage. They enjoy being Single.

in short:
When people are single they want to be in a relationship
When people are in a relationship they dream of their single days

Nothing is wrong with either, but it seems most people cannot get the maximum joy & happiness out of either as they don't fully enjoy what they've got in the now.
Doesn't go for everyone, but for many.

I had a good marriage.. it was not perfect, lots of ups and downs.. but we were a team, loved and supported each other, til death did us part.

But at this stage of my life, I am happy and content being single. But I still want to love someone with all my little heart and be loved in return... adored if possible but loved will suffice.. until he gets to know how wonderful I am and then he would have no choice but to love and adore me forever.

Topic: singles and married


For clarification;

Is this thread about singles dating married people?


Or,
Is it more of a single vs. married thing?

Alan -fill in some interests. Great photo, and you have a few details, but Will Tell You Later makes most women/girls pass you by. Let your dream girl know some of the things you like to do to pass time.

and BTW - Rosie - I LUV your new pic !!

Married I was 'supposed' to provide stability and demonstrate dedication and commitment.
Single, I am required to understand myself.

If when I am with someone and marriage is not on the table, I default to understanding myself.
No matter how deep the relationship might be, I need to stay focused on the here and now.
When I finally do find marriage material, my priorities will shift.
Till then, tho. its all about me and what I gain from the relationship.
Granted, I already promote dedication and commitment but my current focus is on my own agenda.

There is a big difference between marriage and a living reference with someone that is important to you.
Frankly, I'd rather just be with someone than contemplate a marriage with them.
Not saying that marriage is out of the scenario but there is a big distance between marriage and dating.

A woman can have a man in mind for marriage, but if he is not open to it.
I am not going to talk a grown man into it.

I prefer he want and ask me! I have someone in mind but it's not Online here.

Marriage is the main reason for divorces. Proven fact.

Since there is no guarantee, a relationship lasts forever, it might be better not to sign any legal contracts. I learnt it the hard way.

am ready to love you give me your email

Are you hawt in a micro mini skirt?

Do to their experiences people want what they want.

As stated before i agree with it being a personal choice.

I believe married and dating can work well if both parties are on the same page

I have been married AND single ..... now what was the question?

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