The Law of “**** Yes or No” states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “**** Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.
in my own case
She said she’s not interested, but she still flirts with me, so what do I need to do to get her?

Flirts doesn't mean she wants You.

Men flirt all the time Online with many attractive women.

Some women firt too.

When they want to meet in person , and date you may have a keeper!

Move on!

Hmmmmm..I would continue to chat with her, like it isn't
all that important. Casual..get her used to you. Habits
can form you know ;-)

Make her come to you..flash the charm but don't make it
personal. If there is something between you, only you
can make her see it inside a cocoon of safety.

Get her drunk...

Sit down and talk with her. Listen to what she says and try not to inject meaning where no meaning is intended.
Chances are, if you tell her she is flirting with you, she may not agree.
She may like you but not want you as a mate.
She may not be flirting at all and you inject the flirtation assessment into how you perceive her natural state of being.
That is called infatuation and can lead to narcissism and stalking syndrome.

If when you talk with her, she declines you. Are you willing to accept her decision and accept her flirtation as her just being her?

A giant net.

Relax on the sofa, watch TV, then forget her.

If this is an online relationship, just visit her site and pay the $10.00/minute if you want to see more of her.

In real life, don't force yourself on her, she said no, leave it at that.

You can't, most likely.

This op appears to be evidence that when frustrated you immediately go to strangers to tell you what to do, even if it's in how to manipulate someone else to get what you want.

The only way you can "get her" is if she's a certain type of person that's attracted to insecure manipulative users.

There are a lot of women that are.
Tons.Especially on internet dating sites.

Lots of women are looking for sex, or short term emotionally validating relationships, but they have this "I'm no slut!" belief about themselves, or feeling like they're "supposed" to be looking for long term. They believe they're too smart, too in control and knowledgeable of themselves, to be "that" type of girl.

So they manipulate their own perceptions and voila, they go after "bad boys," or insecure manipulative users. Whatever is ultimately guaranteed to fail.

They end up getting the short term gratification, get laid or make a 'friend' they can withdraw from, then they get to point to the "bad" behavior that got them in the first place and hold the guy responsible for their decisions and desires and it ending.

If she's that type, you got a shot. Just keep doing what you're doing, and take the "honest" advice on the "how" from this or any other thread.
It all becomes just a game as you throw formulas at her that morons have rationalized "should" work.

She'll figure out pretty quickly you're playing games, throwing methods and techniques at her, and she'll "let" one work after she's rationalized it, assuming she wants anything more than what she's getting from you now.

Good luck!

If this is an online relationship, just visit her site and pay the $10.00/minute if you want to see more of her.



that was good , loved it : )
thanks for the smile

Leave her alone...

Gee IDK, a new car? Or maybe a huge box o chocolates?