Freddie and the Dreamers.

Delrons, The.

Boomtown Rats, The.

It happens, everything seems good then suddenly it's over. Worth asking her after a few dates if it is a monogamous relationship, at least you will find out if there is a chance it is going to last, and if she says not, well the decision is yours to make. Dating is always a throw of the dice on both sides. Good luck in your search.

Now we find out, and all those wasted times staying true and faithful to girlfriends, makes me wonder what they were up to.

A question I would ask your young friend is, how would he feel, and what would he do now that he discovered that she had cheated on him, maybe seeing the other guy regularly behind his back. My thoughts are, he has been happy with his girlfriend for 2 years, clearly he has feelings for her, but could he forgive her and live with the fact she had been unfaithful, broken his trust. This would be the key question in my opinion. If he felt he would never be able to forgive her, then better to break up with her and move on.

I assume because you are asking the question here, that for whatever the reason she wants to stay with your friend and not the father of the child. I must agree with others regarding a DNA test because he should know with certainty the parentage, even though this may or may not have an influence on any decision he makes. The baby when born is the innocent here, and many men and women marry partners whom have children born out of previous relationships, and they take them as their own. I think it comes down to whether he can forgive her infidelity or not, how much he loves her, and only he knows that.

Zebra.

XTC.

Vandellas, The.

You are right. Call me old fashioned but I prefer to do the asking, but I am not always actively searching for someone I do take a break. Even so, I am still contacted now and again.

Thanks everyone for your replies. I am not really sure if it was a genuine request for an online date, it could have been if it is a new thing, but it has never happened to me before. Yes, I should have asked a few more questions. I am not looking for a long distance relationship, but if I met the right person that could change. In the real world you usually chat with someone for awhile before asking them out on a date, this request for an online date came first, speed dating on steroids!!
It all was all to quick, and I am no Daniel Craig, more than likely a scam.

I was recently asked by an online not unattractive female stranger if I was interested in an online date because we live so far apart, I declined, not being sure of the implications. I can understand this when already in a long distance relationship with someone, but straight off the bat so to speak, not so much. Was this a scam and would it descend in to sex chat quickly, it all seemed just a little bit 'iffy' to me. What do you think, was I seeing a Red Flag that wasn't really there? Or was it a scam?

S Club 7.

Takes two to tango. Break-ups are rarely completely one sided, they fail for a multitude of reasons that build up overtime in my opinion, and which we don't always see coming. Yes, look back and try to understand why it happened and learn from it as best you can. When you have done that, look forward and not backward anymore. Time to draw a line under it and complete the divorce, a separated but still married person is much less attractive to women for many reasons. You sound confident, stable and financially solvent, these are all very attractive qualities to women. Maybe you need to expand your search for a partner, join a few more dating sites, and in the real world think about where you can meet women with similar interests to your own. It could be at hobby clubs, evening classes, dance clubs, church meetings, exmilitary social clubs, and wherever you feel comfortable in going to as well, takes time but you will find the right one for you. Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

Queen.

Oasis.

Good morning everyone here in Mingle2.

Monkees, The,

James Last Orchestra.

Some guys are 'old school' when it comes to paying on a date, maybe you need to establish who pays on a date beforehand, certainly a first date.

I believe being on the same page with your goals in life is what matters, I don't consider age that important providing you are both free to marry. There are more important things, personality, maturity, personal characteristics, and much more in my opinion. It is a personal preference whether to stay within a specific age range or not. Good luck in your search.