Hi and thank you for stopping by. I am looking to get out of the house more often. I am gay, with a let's be friends first, mindset - ask, and I'll share what that means to me. I will talk to you like a friend, as an equal, because we are. I love this saying -- Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused. -- Come, as friends let us amuse each other, explore the world around us, do activities we both love or want to learn, teaching each other new things, and let things unfold and build naturally - how's that for weird... if you don't see the wee bit of humor in that, likely we are not much of a match. === My goal is to have fun alongside of you, not simply with you. Are you a person that understands there is a healing touch aspect of cuddling, snuggling, and mutual touch and exploration? I am also looking for those that understand the difference between laughing with someone vs. laughing at someone. Well... this seems like a good spot to mention I play at playing the guitar, piano and sing. Prefer non-smoker, but open. 420 is negotiable, but I don't use, so outdoors only. No drug users, don't need the hassle. I rarely drink, don't like the taste of many alcoholic products. When I have found one I like, seems they discontinue production. Maybe you know of a few I might like? As a side note, during the work week e-mail replies often end up to be a - If I have time - activity, so it could be today or next Saturday when I reply... not ignoring you. === I'll chat / network with anyone that's willing, on most topics. I'm looking for friends first, or at least on the path towards - lol. I think we all have more fun with friends than strangers. Be a friend first and see if/where it leads. Our personalities will help define what is next -- If you made it this far, drop me a note. In response to another frequent question, mostly top yet versatile, love sharing the oral activities. Yes, I suck at taking photos, thank you, I am aware. Sharing some useful tips would brighten both our days :) Hartford is an area within City of Lake Stevens, no idea why the site put "Hartford" Other updates 6/22/24 ...again... my goal is to have fun alongside of you, not simply with you. 7/3/24...btw way, 'friendship' doesn't automatically mean fwb's... While I may have already expressed my interest, I am well behaved, thus you would need to tell me clearly, - if - that interest arises for you. (yeah awkward... but I hope helpful) Warm hugs