I am a gay man with a natural curiosity about the lives of other gay men, with whom I hope to form long-lasting relationships. The site is and must remain non-political. I know that many of you live a double life due to the hostility of the government and population in your country. If your home is Russia or Ukraine, I welcome you but if your introduction contains photos of yourself unclothed below your waist. I will immediately block you. Relationships are fragile like glass, once broken impossible to repair, they fail for many reasons so we should not apportion blame. Hatred, bitterness and resentment are poisons. They eat and destroy people. and serve no purpose only to cause great unhappiness, so just smile for each other in remembrance of the fun we had together through our letters which I will keep, but your photos will be returned to you Never allow hope or expectation to exceed what is possible. And only say you love someone if you feel it is true. A false love is worse than no love. It breaks hearts and does great damage to the soul. Perhaps it is better to be just friends. Not getting too close. The parting, if and when it comes, will be easier to bear. I offer friendship, honesty, loyalty and moral support. I cannot provide you with a home or money. I will never make a promise which cannot be kept. All photos I send to you are genuine, not faked, stolen or enhanced. My name is Jonathan. I am english and live in England.