I don't have self doubt or pity. Had a hard time lastnite. I am definately confident, intelligent, and assertive!

being alone makes you sad... that is self doubt. Publically broadcasting that being alone makes you sad, is not confident.

Go to Borders or B&N and peruse threw there, sit at the coffee shop and read, you may meet someone that way.

No, bein alone doesn't bring about self doubt for me, and it ain't broadcasting if you are askin for prayers. My confidence is higher than you could imagine. See me everyday, then you'd understand my points of view!

I'm not going to argue with you, because I won't change your mind, but when I see a man feeling sorry for himself because he is alone.... It hold no appeal to me...I have been single for almost a year, because I don't like what has presented itself to me in the dating world, therefor I am alone by choice.... I could lower my standards and "be" with someone... but that is pathetic also....

Yes, it woud be divine to find that "one" but until he shows up.... I'm content with my DECISION to be alone...

Doesn't really sound like you're confident.

Here I am listenin to 2 people, try to give me advice with put downs. Seems like you 2 need the confidence boost. Maybe you oughtta know me before you question my confidence.

Isn't it amazing all these dating sites and all the lonely ppl? You would think we all would find someone!
I am too tired of being lonely. I need and want a man in my life.

Careful You'll get what you wish for.....

I wish upon a star!

Like they say, actions speak louder than words. You talk about how you're fine with women, but here you are saying how lonely you are and asking people to pray that someone who's a great mother for your children will just walk into your life. That sounds like a last resort, desperation move. Honestly, if you want people to believe you, your actions have to be congruent with your words.



That's because people don't trust other people. Online dating is almost like meeting people in real life. People look, but rarely initiate anything. And when they do, they usually get blown off, but being online, it's less painful than being rejected in front of others in public.

It's not a put down, it's an observation.... I'm trying to be helpful to you... if you don't see it that way, maybe you should take a really hard look at you....

I'm by no means desperate. I was simply askin for prayers, because it is hard to see my sons hurting, as well as, coping with bein alone myself sometimes. Me askin for those prayers, does not mean I am not confident, assertive, or intelligent. I am very much all those things and more, very confident, assertive, and intelligent.

Very Hard to see how my sons mother gave up on us all!

are you trying to convince me, or are you trying to convince you?

Neither, just stating a statement of facts!

you are in my good thoughts hun. you know where i am anytime you need to talk

okey dokey smokey....

Thanks Rose!

anytime...men and women get sad about being alone at times. You know you can talk to me anytime to vent or anything

We all have out down days, doesnt make us any less comfident just human