setting up someone you're dating, in order to test their fidelity?

just did brother

No.

Nope. If you need to do that, I guess you might as well forget about the whole thing

haha I have....

and how did it turn out?

why am I not surprised?

Obviously you don't trust them if you have to do that! So why waste your time? I am to old to play those kind of games so my answer would be NO!

if you have to do that you are with the wrong person.

it came out bad

how about making a fake profile just to spy

it seems it bothers her to be questioned

I think that is horrible. If I thought I couldn't trust someone, I wouldn't waste my time talking to them. And if anyone ever did that to me, they would be gone.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Lily..you're baaaaaaaaad

It's been my experience that if you're at the point where you're considering such super-sleuth activity, the relationship's already flatlined. Before I'd learned to avoid prolonged and painful seperation I'd test the other's fidelity using setups. And I was always disappointed and outraged.

It's just a cold hard truth that when you suspect cheating, either you're right, or you're cheating. Cheaters know what they themselves are capable of and they tend to be paranoid that everyone else is capable of the same. The rest of us have a pretty keen eye for detecting those subtle differences when someone we know intimately is straying. So if you suspect it, save yourself the time, effort, and embarassment of conducting a sting operation. Just pack up and move on.

saves alot of heartache in the long run.....

I don't think that people need to be spying and testing etc..relationships are about trust..if you don't have trust..you have nothing.

I'd rather test their fidelity than end up with an STD....

yes stds scare me 2