I dunno what this is used for, do you just go through and pick who you like and don't like, then they show up if it's mutual?

If so, then why no messages from them, or do I message them?

eh. I dunno..I'm going to bed, feel free to message me with any insight.

ask patsfan.... he's got that mutual match all figured out.. HE LOVES IT!!

yes, PATSFAN is the guy to ask, I haven't been here as long as he has. Best of luck figuring that out, I sure can't.

morning peccy

Morning Giggles

yea I'd like to understand how that is supposed to work also

well he should be here sometime soon

great i'll have to check back later. got these pics in my mutual match and don't hear from anyone

That's funny..

you can message them

So what exactly does the mutual match break down anyway? I have a single mutual match and do not understand how she got there

oh, it just helps you see people in your area who have no interest in writing you back

Because people don't know how to use it somehow the system is broken??



Here's how it works.

YOU go through the selection process looking at the profiles that match your search parameters.
You select YES or MAYBE if you're interested in talking with them. You select NO if not.
OTHER PEOPLE do the same thing - and if you match their search parameters OR if you have clicked YES/MAYBE on their profile then you will come up in their selection process.

If BOTH of you have clicked YES or MAYBE on each other's pictures then you'll appear in each other's MM list.

Now you know she's interested in talking to you, you're interested in talking to her... FOR PETE'S SAKE WILL YOU TWO START TALKING AND STOP WHINING ABOUT IT IN THE FORUMS!?!?!




Deep breath.
OK, I'm better now.

The fact is MANY people don't respond to emails, even after they've expressed interest in the person sending the email. No one understands this so don't bother asking for explanation. Send 'em a couple emails then move on is all you can do.

I still think MM is a brilliant idea - even if people don't utilize it.

would you remind repeating that all Aaronzdad, I don't think i understood

yeh AD, need a little more detailed descrip. please.

Lost me about half way..



Hows it going?Misty been around yet???((AD))

The sad part is there are lots of people posting in the "Help" forum who DO need more detailed explanations.

All sorts of whining about "how do I know which person this email is about" and "Why is someone from so far away showing up".

Ya just gotta shake your head and wonder sometimes.

hey aaronsdad, I need a new washing machine

What the... ???

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