well im going to shorten it for time but I met this amazing girl. she was everything I wanted inside and out...so i thought. well it all started on myspace..yes laugh it up I ran into her profile on mistake but when i saw her i was just drawn to her. I quikly checked her status and it said taken so I backed off. anyway we started talking as friends and it just kind of grew from there she broke up with her boyfriend because she though it was to much of an age difference he was 31 and she was 22 and they just were not working out. during that time we were just talking as friends. at this time it was during Christmas break (oh and by the way she lived in kansas and I lived in florida) but anyway for her Christmas break she went to see her family and I was just relaxing when she called me out of the blue, mind you we did not talk often at all but she called me when I thought she was suppose to be spending time with her family. well we talked for a bit then ended the conversation. anyway during her time with her family we started talking alot.. Anyway she got on a plane to go back home when she met this guy, he was in the army any way he's 26 and to her is everything Physically she has always wanted. so they started talking and kind of hit it off I guess and when they got off the plane he asked if he could come and see her (he lives all the way in texas she said no at first then sshe said she would give him one day. so he came and visted her and I guess they hit it off even more..yes I know looks real bad for me. but I know some workings to a womans heart...anyway to make a long story short she ended up liking us both alot but i was at the back by this time we were talking all the time she would say things to me like call me baby and then..get this...she hit me with the L word the damn L word!!! so I am not really buying but im not going to lie it did make me feel really good. anyway I was talking to her way more than (the army guys name is josh) josh so I thought I was slowly but surely gainning some ground. I mean we would be on the phone till 5:00 in the morning. and when we were at work we were always texting each other. now during this time I could tell she still really like josh but from the way we talked it started to seem like that was changing...now I did something that will make you all hate me or call me a fool but I did somethings for her like I sent her money when she got kicked out of her apartment and I sent her money to help her out with something...now that does not even compare to what I did in Feb. because you see her birthday is in Feb right next to V-day so I got her something for both...now don't hurt me...I already know it was stupid but I bought her a $600 white gold diamond in crested heart shaped necklace and i sent to her. she could not believe it off course but she loved it. the josh called her and told her that he was coming down to see her for her birthday. I was like damn it. anyway that weekend was hell for me because she promised me she would not have sex but I couldn't help but freak out anyway after all this I was sick of fighting I could not take it and I told her that im done...this is after i mind you when she told me she was dating him. I told myself I would never call her again. I was at work and I got a call from her saying she could not leave it this way and that she was flying down to see me. I told her No but she told me she didn't care she was still coming to see me...and I kind of gave in and said ok and from that point on everything with us seemed like it could not get any better she had stop talking to josh and choose me so we had gooten really close and we stated dating counting down the days when she would be coming down to florida. this was a two mouth wait period when she finally aarived I was terrified because I had only seen pictures but in person..she was breath taking anyway we hit it off...as soon as we got to the house.....lets just say we did our thing. because we had been talking about it for months. oh and she was a virgin also. anyway things could not be better....it lasted to days she got an email from josh saying he had missed her and she acted different towards me the who time she was there. she started acting like I was her friend and not her boyfriend...then she broke up with me WHILE she was still here and tried to act like it was not a big deal. when she finally left I asked her to call me when she got home to let me know she made it she didn't she calls me hours after she had arived mind you she has NEVER done that before she all ways made sure she called me her excuse was she forgot. anyway we got into an argument and she was really nasty to me saying thing that she knew would hurt me but I kept telling her I did not believe her so I had said you know what im done and didn't call or text her after that even though I was still very much crazy about her I had made up in my mind to forget about her. then she texts me out of the blue talking like were friends. seeing that i am not a mean person I replyed but kept it short she then calls me a few days later asking about something that she could have called customer service for..she was confusing me seeing from are last conversation she made it clear that she was done with me and she only wanted josh. Then get this she told me she was going to be modeling naked she knew this wold bother me so I asked her how does josh feel about this and she said she no longer talks to him...

alot of reading, so i didnt read it. hope everything is cool

Do you have a question?

2 much drama

yes my question is what is she doing? is she trying to play me?

ditch her

i agree with tina ditch her she sounds like a brain tumor waiting to happen.. all that stress it sounds like she put you through.. NOT healthy bro not at all.. =/

no, sounds like a perfectly normal relationship to me...NOT!! lose the beyotch.

I am not exactly sure what kind of advice you want, but after reading your story, if I were in your shoes, I'd stay away from her! It sounds like she isn't ready for a relationship herself yet, if she can just go back and forth like that! You seem like a nice guy, you can do better! I just don't want to see you get hurt by her! Keep looking! There is someone out there that will love only you!

Yes, she's seriously playing you. And by the way, I'd be happy to send you my address if you'd like to send me money or jewelry.

Is she TRYING to play you? Dude you are part of the game...

I really wish it was that simply..I just can't seem to stop thing about her and she's not making it easier. I really care about her and she knows this. I really do wish I could just forget her

If she's going to go back and forth, you have to forget her! she's not worth the hurt and deception!

yeah but when your feelings get involed you tend not to be able to see things as clearly as you would if you had no feelings

LOL

I think you were played really well. Do you always send women gifts and money that you don't know very well? I think you can find a real woman that doesn't play games and someone that truly wants you and only you. It sounds like you like drama..trust me, there are women out there that likes drama free relationships BUT they are women not little girls!!
I would say, you need to stop answering her messages and find someone who likes you for you. If you have to buy someone, they are not worth your time!!
Good luck

That's true, but I just don't want to see you get hurt, cuz my ex-bf did the same thing to me with another woman! Don't do that, cuz she will hurt you over and over!

couldn't find a seat at the bar..too long for standup.

Hope all goes well dude.

no lol i don't im usually really level headed but it was just something about her.

Thanks im going to damn well try