I'm watching the TV show Cheaters and made me wonder...

if you mate was cheating on you but the mate didn't tell the other person about you...if you had the chance...do you go after the other person?

Is it fair if the other person didn't know about you?

thanks..you have totally confused me

Wouldn't go after the other person... better things to do.

No Rose they don't know about the spouse they're being cheated almost "almost" like the spouse...

i like that show.....no other comment...

nope, I wouldn't go after either of them. Not worth my time

i was just curious because a friend of mine was the "other woman" and she had no clue. I even talked to the guy and had no clue. the gf came into the bar where we were at and went after my friend...not the guy

but I've also heard that the other person made no commitments to the persons mate. the mate made the commitments

I think if it's known that they are in a relationship...then you should stay away but I think the anger is usually toward the other person more than the one cheating

If someone cheats, I wouldn't go after either. Just leave and don't look back. Neither is worth my time.

after i got cheated on i couldnt watch the show made me cry.i thought i was lucky enough not to be cheated on before i found out

Nope wouldn't go after the other person. I have been there done that. The only person to blame was my ex husband. She was lied to just like me so I couldn't blame her, and I never did.......

It was 100 percent his fault....

cheaters should burn in hell, my ex-wife is hopefully there now i am sure you are familiar with the other term for a female dog...she was and is one.

i was the same way for a long time

the only way i would get angry at the other person is if she was my friend... but only after i threw his stuff out the door

ok...so what would make others go for the other person?

I would'nt go after the other person.


There's better things to do.

If you confront him, you're 'lying'.

If you confront her, there's 'excuses'.

Confront them both and you're 'crazy'.



It's not worth it, somebody's packing.

have to agree



nice pic Rob

people used to get shot or stabbed for cheating at cards....food for thought...what has this society come to?

If we had kids together and that was going on. That's the only thing that would make me snap and I'd be equally mad at myself for being with her.

Sure...you pound the h3ll outta' them anyway. It's a d1ck thing....