Topic: Too soon?
rebkel's photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:31 AM
There's this guy I'm really into - Dan. He just got out of a 1-2 year relationship in which he was cheated on. We've been getting much closer over the last week or so. He just called me and invited me to watch a movie with him this week.

I've totally been laid-back and allowing him to pursue me - that way I know he wants me for me, not just because I'm convenient.

Should I go to this movie and see where things go? Or say maybe it would be better in a few more weeks (when he's over his ex more)?

I'm so into him - it's hard to look at this rationally.

Thanks, guys! flowerforyou

itsmetina's photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:34 AM
just go enjoy a movie maybe things will work out better than wondering

BobbyJ's photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:34 AM
Beware of a man on the rebound!

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:36 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Mon 03/24/08 09:45 AM
Based on your posting history, you found out about the cheating/break-up on the 17th. You do whatever you want, since it is your life, but I wouldn't touch this one with a ten foot pole for AT LEAST three months if not more. That's just me.

rebkel's photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:36 AM
And just to say - if he kissed me I would kiss him back, but nothing further. I don't want to be one of THOSE kind of movie nights.

RJR1's photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:43 AM
You'll never know unless you take the chance!
Some people get over things quicker than others.

no photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:48 AM
Ehhh....just do it!!

krazykitty323's photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:48 AM
It wouldn't hurt to go see a movie, just be careful. And remember he is on the rebound

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/24/08 09:59 AM
drinker Go see the moviedrinker

southern_bee's photo
Mon 03/24/08 10:03 AM
have fun go see the movie but dont set yur self up for disaster

no photo
Mon 03/24/08 10:05 AM
Go see the movie. Pay attention to how the conversation flows. If he's talking about her a lot instead of you two then I'd say he's not ready...flowerforyou

rebkel's photo
Mon 03/24/08 10:05 AM
Thanks guys. I think I will go see it, and just be on my guard. I don't think I could pass this up even if I should. I've always been one to follow my heart, and it usually works out. :heart:

'Preciate the help! flowerforyou

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 03/24/08 10:06 AM
No. Wait.