Topic: Who should make the first move if...
Jtevans's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:49 PM
whoever is the drunkest




btw is Drunkest even a word or did i just create a new word?huh

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Sat 03/22/08 09:49 PM
I was raised to wait for the man, but I do a lot of waiting....

looook's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:50 PM



Men should make the first move.......whereeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee did the real men go???noway noway noway noway

Right here.
<---movesbigsmile
its hard to look at a dog and a man at the same time!!!noway laugh noway laugh
sad sad sad

toastedoranges's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:57 PM

Men should make the first move.......whereeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee did the real men go???noway noway noway noway


men and women are equals, go after what you desire

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:27 PM


Men should make the first move.......whereeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee did the real men go???noway noway noway noway


men and women are equals, go after what you desire


what he said.

Can I hire you to write my posts for me?

JaceKnows's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:28 PM
Who cares? Buy her a drink, if she orders milk... move on.

toastedoranges's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:30 PM
what he said.

Can I hire you to write my posts for me?


depending on which side you lay, i may be a moron. it's all in perception

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:33 PM

what he said.

Can I hire you to write my posts for me?


depending on which side you lay, i may be a moron. it's all in perception

then I 'm probably a moron as well because 99% of the time you take the words out of my mouth.

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Sat 03/22/08 10:47 PM

If two people are interested in each other, but there's about a ten year (or so) age difference, who should make the first move, or does it matter?


In short, I personally feel the lady should. I'm tired of putting myself out there, only get shot down because she suddenly doesn't feel the same way.

Bry395's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:54 PM
If two people are interested in each other it shouldn't matter who makes the first move. If I am interested in someone, I have no problem making the first move. Heck, the worst that can happen is he says no thanks.

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Sat 03/22/08 10:57 PM
Eh, the only way I'd ever make the first move is if I was drunk. So I don't drink around men. LOL

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sun 03/23/08 01:58 AM

I was raised to wait for the man, but I do a lot of waiting....


...same here, little hen. sad
but while we are waiting, we are at least having a great time on JSH! drinker drinker

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:22 AM


I was raised to wait for the man, but I do a lot of waiting....


...same here, little hen. sad
but while we are waiting, we are at least having a great time on JSH! drinker drinker


why wait? Guys aren't psychic. How will they know you are interested if you don't make the first move?

bad_girl's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:52 AM
Edited by bad_girl on Sun 03/23/08 07:53 AM
What difference does age make if you are interested in each other tell him/her for lords sake just say it

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:53 AM
Edited by sleeplessingermany on Sun 03/23/08 07:54 AM

why wait? Guys aren't psychic. How will they know you are interested if you don't make the first move?


well, i have tried it a couple of times, but every time i got the feeling guys don't like women making the first move....maybe i contacted the wrong type of man (that is what my gf keeps telling me anyhow! bigsmile )

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Sun 03/23/08 07:54 AM
I don't care who makes the first move, as long as it isn't me.


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Sun 03/23/08 07:54 AM



why wait? Guys aren't psychic. How will they know you are interested if you don't make the first move?


well, i have tried it a couple of times, but every time i got the feeling guys don't like women making the first move....maybe i contacted the wrong type of man (that is what my gf keeps telling me anyhow! bigsmile )


Make a move Sabine.bigsmile smooched See what happenssmooched

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:56 AM




why wait? Guys aren't psychic. How will they know you are interested if you don't make the first move?


well, i have tried it a couple of times, but every time i got the feeling guys don't like women making the first move....maybe i contacted the wrong type of man (that is what my gf keeps telling me anyhow! bigsmile )


Make a move Sabine.bigsmile smooched See what happenssmooched


can you recommend a guy ? blushing

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Sun 03/23/08 08:06 AM
Edited by shutterbug on Sun 03/23/08 08:08 AM
I was fixed up yesterday evening with a 'blind date' of sorts...my g/f and a male friend of hers were talking...they were the go betweens for myself and this guy Mark...they gathered the initial info for each of us...then I made the first move and called Mark...an hour later we were sharing a pizza and a few beers, many stories and lots of laughs. 4 hours later I returned home with memories of a very nice evening. We enjoyed each others company and agreed to go out again.


Sleepless...this guy was glad I took the initiative and called him...he said otherwise it would have been another evening home alone with his dog! :smile:

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sun 03/23/08 08:12 AM

I was fixed up yesterday evening with a 'blind date' of sorts...my g/f and a male friend of hers were talking...they were the go betweens for myself and this guy Mark...they gathered the initial info for each of us...then I made the first move and called Mark...an hour later we were sharing a pizza and a few beers, many stories and lots of laughs. 4 hours later I returned home with memories of a very nice evening. We enjoyed each others company and agreed to go out again.


Sleepless...this guy was glad I took the initiative and called him...he said otherwise it would have been another evening home alone with his dog! :smile:


i know all about the evenings alone with a dog !! sad

i am very happy that one of us could spend a nice evening with a nice guy! you did great, shutterbug ! flowerforyou