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Edited by
UplandHunter
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Sat 03/22/08 08:50 AM
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I would agree...he found some one else..it did not work out...now he is coming back tail between his leg..........Run
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Jill ~~ I'm here sweetie! I was cleaning the bathroom floor.
I would say that often times people meet someone and they let it fizzle due to whatever circumstances are going on in their life. Later, they think about you and reailze how much they liked you. So they call, to see if you are mad or still interested, or whatever. This used to happen to me all the time, in fact since Jist and I got together it has happened several times. My advice is this.... If you are still interested you need to tell him his not contacting you was rude. And let him know it's not okay to do again in the future. I'd definately give him another chance (if you deem him worthy) but keep in mind you teach people how to treat you. 
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Forget about him. He probably found and lost someone else and is now back to you trying to sound sympathetic to get your attention. I totaly agree! |
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maybe the crash was a wake up call and hes changing his life and wants you in it now
or he didnt call because he was hurt or depressed from the crash to? |
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I agree. I think it was becasue he found someone else, and now he is trying to come back and using his "crashed squad car" as bait. Don't fall for it!!
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I agree, maybe he found out that he liked you and you should give him a second chance. BUT if he does it again...don't walk away but run away! They are way to many single men out there to waste your time on just one!!
Good luck
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I think it's so odd that the men are responding. It's marvelous to get some straight feedback about this type of situation. Many thanks for the masculine side's input. Very thoughtful of you!!
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Short and sweet here, he sounds like a player. I know that sounds weird and all, but think about it. He stops talking to you for a month and then, WHAM, he has a car crash. Now, a week goes by and he sends you a text talking about the crash, and how he is ok. Glad to hear he is okay, but this was done for a few reasons.
1. Sympathy. How are you gonna be mad at him when he shows you that he was in a crash? You won't be, and he used this to see how you would react and to see if he could still have a chance with you. 2. He went a month without talking to you, and it was more than likely cause he was tapping some other chick. Either that fizzeled, or he got bored with her, and then he was intending to talk back to you, but had to figure out how to do it cause he just left you hanging. Then the crash, and well....he used it to his advantage. 3. He basically wants a piece. I am willing to bet he will say all the things you want to hear. But, whether he means them or not is another thing. Remember, guys know that women love to hear words, but there are those women who just really love to hear them. Makes them feel good. My thought is that if he was serious about you to begin with, he would have tried harder. But, he left ya hanging for a month. Sounds to me like he was tapping someone else, and now he wants you. |
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Short and sweet here, he sounds like a player. I know that sounds weird and all, but think about it. He stops talking to you for a month and then, WHAM, he has a car crash. Now, a week goes by and he sends you a text talking about the crash, and how he is ok. Glad to hear he is okay, but this was done for a few reasons. 1. Sympathy. How are you gonna be mad at him when he shows you that he was in a crash? You won't be, and he used this to see how you would react and to see if he could still have a chance with you. 2. He went a month without talking to you, and it was more than likely cause he was tapping some other chick. Either that fizzeled, or he got bored with her, and then he was intending to talk back to you, but had to figure out how to do it cause he just left you hanging. Then the crash, and well....he used it to his advantage. 3. He basically wants a piece. I am willing to bet he will say all the things you want to hear. But, whether he means them or not is another thing. Remember, guys know that women love to hear words, but there are those women who just really love to hear them. Makes them feel good. My thought is that if he was serious about you to begin with, he would have tried harder. But, he left ya hanging for a month. Sounds to me like he was tapping someone else, and now he wants you. 
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Jill ~~ I'm here sweetie! I was cleaning the bathroom floor. I would say that often times people meet someone and they let it fizzle due to whatever circumstances are going on in their life. Later, they think about you and reailze how much they liked you. So they call, to see if you are mad or still interested, or whatever. This used to happen to me all the time, in fact since Jist and I got together it has happened several times. My advice is this.... If you are still interested you need to tell him his not contacting you was rude. And let him know it's not okay to do again in the future. I'd definately give him another chance (if you deem him worthy) but keep in mind you teach people how to treat you.
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Short and sweet here, he sounds like a player. I know that sounds weird and all, but think about it. He stops talking to you for a month and then, WHAM, he has a car crash. Now, a week goes by and he sends you a text talking about the crash, and how he is ok. Glad to hear he is okay, but this was done for a few reasons. 1. Sympathy. How are you gonna be mad at him when he shows you that he was in a crash? You won't be, and he used this to see how you would react and to see if he could still have a chance with you. 2. He went a month without talking to you, and it was more than likely cause he was tapping some other chick. Either that fizzeled, or he got bored with her, and then he was intending to talk back to you, but had to figure out how to do it cause he just left you hanging. Then the crash, and well....he used it to his advantage. 3. He basically wants a piece. I am willing to bet he will say all the things you want to hear. But, whether he means them or not is another thing. Remember, guys know that women love to hear words, but there are those women who just really love to hear them. Makes them feel good. My thought is that if he was serious about you to begin with, he would have tried harder. But, he left ya hanging for a month. Sounds to me like he was tapping someone else, and now he wants you. Glad you cleared that up. 
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did he answer why he stopped talking to begin with? one of his other 3 girlfriends found out and were getting jeaslous... cops are just good for things like that
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did he answer why he stopped talking to begin with? one of his other 3 girlfriends found out and were getting jeaslous... cops are just good for things like that |
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did he answer why he stopped talking to begin with? one of his other 3 girlfriends found out and were getting jeaslous... cops are just good for things like that theirs only 2 types of cops round here.. crooked cops and crooked cops that havent been caught yet. |
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did he answer why he stopped talking to begin with? one of his other 3 girlfriends found out and were getting jeaslous... cops are just good for things like that theirs only 2 types of cops round here.. crooked cops and crooked cops that havent been caught yet.
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same thing... lol
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Good luck, Jill. Do me a favor, though, and don't settle. Don't let him just rope-a-dope you along. You're too good for that. To thine ownself be true. Smile! (=
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