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Topic: Tip for guys-
ominousman26's photo
Sat 03/22/08 12:45 AM

I'm not sure about other girls, but I know that I don't like it when guys come off as too desperate. I like to get to know someone before I start talking about kissing, having a relationship, ect. And emailing 3/4 (or more) times a day gets annoying!
you cant give me tips your a girl!!

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Sat 03/22/08 12:51 AM

And some of the guys are really nice guys, so I don't want to just blow them off, but I feel like just blocking them. Guys, would you prefer to be told that you're being annoying, or would it just be better to block you right away without any explanation?


ur wright this is nessery first to know about person how he is maintain a relation as freind then take the step for relation and kissing

FloridaKendra's photo
Sat 03/22/08 12:59 AM


Not sure what the last post was trying to say, but I think it's all a matter of what you're comfortable with.

If I like a guy, 3-4 e-mails a day doesn't seem that much to me. I've had worse, much worse, from some guys.

I think just blocking without giving him an explanation is extremely rude and don't really recommend it. Be honest, upfront, and fair with him. How would YOU like to be treated? Do what you would want done to you.

You're a beautiful girl, good luck with whatever it is you seek! =)

flowerforyou :heart:

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:03 AM
Just a thought but women do it too.

not all men and women do it though. that's what's great about the block buttons

BlueskyJ's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:23 AM
'm not sure about other girls, but I know that I don't like it when guys come off as too desperate. I like to get to know someone before I start talking about kissing, having a relationship, ect. And emailing 3/4 (or more) times a day gets annoying!

You are young....Young guys are often insecure....their world view is limited by their maturity which usually takes longer for many men, that's why the silly talk of kissing, relationships, and excessive chasing....

i suggest you find a man a little older, not old, but older than you've been pursued...or just find someone with greater maturity...

Remember relationships are like young plants...they need to be watered with friendship to develop, given adequate amount of sunlight sharing to grow and fertilized with love to blossom...:wink:

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Sat 03/22/08 02:35 AM
tips and t*ts are almost the same word.........I think this is why so many guys came here tonight!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


Ohhhhhhhhhh shush muriel!!! youre terrible!!!devil noway devil

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Sat 03/22/08 02:35 AM
oh sh*t what was the question again???noway laugh laugh noway

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/22/08 02:36 AM

I'm not sure about other girls, but I know that I don't like it when guys come off as too desperate. I like to get to know someone before I start talking about kissing, having a relationship, ect. And emailing 3/4 (or more) times a day gets annoying!
huh indifferent

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Sat 03/22/08 02:54 AM
oh yes!!!! annoying men!!! laugh grumble laugh grumble

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/22/08 02:55 AM
can I be annoying bigsmile

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 03/22/08 02:59 AM
Anytime a man talks about intimate things right away, you know he's only got one thing he's interested in, and it's not conversation.

kidatheart70's photo
Sat 03/22/08 03:00 AM

Anytime a man talks about intimate things right away, you know he's only got one thing he's interested in, and it's not conversation.



Same goes for a woman.:wink: laugh

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 03/22/08 03:03 AM
LOL I wouldn't know, I don't date women.. but I'll take your word for it!laugh

SharpShooter10's photo
Sat 03/22/08 05:09 AM
Edited by SharpShooter10 on Sat 03/22/08 05:13 AM
tell them so they will quit wasting their time. Geez

by the way, do you like to french kiss on the first email
want cyber sex
what type panties do you wear
can i have your phone number
what messenger do you use
wanna talk dirty
wanna swap photos
do you have photos
are they nude
wanna make nude photos
can i email you again
i keep trying to IM you, whats wrong, dont want to talk to me
can i visit
will you visit
can i meet your mom and dad
wanna meet mine, have to go to the cemetary, but they wont mind
whats your address
laugh smokin flowerforyou drinker bigsmile smokin flowerforyou laugh drinker smokin bigsmile


Just tell them you dont want so much contact, sounds like your not really interested just dont want to burn any bridgesdrinker

I cant get a date, I cant get laid, do you like me, I like you, I am desperate, do I sound desperate, are you desperate. I need an answer, please tell me, am I emailing to much, do i call too much, i haven't heard from you in 20 minutes, whats wrong, you dont like me anymore, are you emailing someone else, wanna go cyber steady, I thought we were an item,

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:46 AM

Just a thought but women do it too.

not all men and women do it though. that's what's great about the block buttons



















drinker BINGO drinker

OneOfAKind4U's photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:07 AM
huh huh huh huh huh huh huh noway

me2g's photo
Sat 03/22/08 11:17 AM

huh huh huh huh huh huh huh noway


I think we're loosin another one here.... is there a doctor in the threads... anyone

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sat 03/22/08 11:24 AM


huh huh huh huh huh huh huh noway


I think we're loosin another one here.... is there a doctor in the threads... anyone


bigsmile bigsmile

OffspringPhreak's photo
Sat 03/22/08 11:58 AM

And some of the guys are really nice guys, so I don't want to just blow them off, but I feel like just blocking them. Guys, would you prefer to be told that you're being annoying, or would it just be better to block you right away without any explanation?


Why not just tell him "hey I don't hate you or anything but you're coming off too strong so tone it down a little bit"; most guys that tend to do that are just either not wanting to let a good girl slip by them or are just insecure or something. I'm not saying that's a valid excuse to be like "omg i'm gonna bother you 24/7; just saying." though.

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