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Topic: which one is better
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Fri 03/21/08 07:12 PM

yeah thats wut i thought ((((((lex))))))) but i wasnt sure i felt if one does go to a pay site they are getting a more different pool of jerks!laugh


Honestly, the people on the pay site were almost entirely different from the ones I saw on free sites -- there might have been a dozen or so I saw on both. Maybe some of the pay site people were also on other free sites I never tried, I don't know, but I really saw very little of that.

Another thing is that most of the people I saw on the pay site were NOT paying members -- this was a site where you can set up a free account but only paying members can send or receive e-mails. Probably only 10-15% of the people I saw on there were paying. I gave it 3 months, and then figured I could do something more practical with $24.95 a month. Maybe someday I will, too....!!

((((((((((BEE))))))))))

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southern_bee's photo
Fri 03/21/08 07:15 PM
((((((((((((((((((((((lex)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))flowerforyou


yeah i thought about trying a pay site again.b.c well im on 2 free sites and had 2 horribly bad dates (but not from here) but i didnt wanna go and throw my money away like a fool if it wasnt feesable!

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Fri 03/21/08 07:18 PM
Paid sites seem to have more guys that were looking to carry on a long distance relationship because they either had a live in girlfriend most weekends and it was easier to hide. Also the paid sites seem to have more guys trying to pitch something such as real estate, CPA service, or selling classic cars as an investment. Paid sites also seem to have a lot of professional men who think and expensive travel date, they usually write off one way or another, is a free pass for sex.

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Fri 03/21/08 07:19 PM
ewwwwww well thats just dirty sick

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Fri 03/21/08 07:21 PM

By far, free is the way to go. Anyone can join a free site and anyone can join a paid site, but there is not one paid site that I know of that is better than this site. One thing the JSH site does not have that the paid sites do have and that is scammers, at least from what I can tell. No "send me money I am poor Nigerian" on this site! That is so refreshing!


and this site has you!!!flowerforyou

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Fri 03/21/08 07:45 PM
Just my opinion. I have found for myself that people seem to be more open to things and not expect as much as i have seen on a paying site. It seems if your paying for a site, your not actually getting what your paying for if that made sense.

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