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Topic: Phone #s
duckiegiggles Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 4642	Thu 03/20/08 06:06 PM
wait for her to call u cuz wiff women wiff huh?? nice wait two days then call her around 7pm

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Thu 03/20/08 06:06 PM
The address thing ain't too dangerous for me. I give out my post box number. I'm not real concerned about stalkers and the Lord protects me anyway.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/20/08 06:08 PM
The address thing ain't too dangerous for me. I give out my post box number. I'm not real concerned about stalkers and the Lord protects me anyway. oh cool, so you don't have to lock your doors or anything like the rest of us! How does one get that special deal?

sexi_PHAT Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 1301	Thu 03/20/08 06:09 PM
What's it mean when a gal gives you her phone #? Does it mean she wants a call right away? Is a short call OK? When would she want follow up calls? Say within an hour or two after a date, perhaps? I hate to bother people on the phone. Maybe it's different with each individual and I should ask. At any rate, I'd like some feedback on this so I can work things out better. I got a couple of #s. I didn't call. One dumped me after a couple of dates and the other one cancelled a date we had for Saturday, so back to square 1/2, I reckon. Geo. You think too much..im getting a headache!

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Thu 03/20/08 06:10 PM
If I had a good time on a date, a short and sweet phone call can be endearing. I'm going to sound complicated here, but... If I didn't have such a good time, then it's just creepy. I want to scream at the guy who calls after a bad date, "Yeah...about our date...WHERE YOU THERE!!!!"

jjkitty Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 1109	Thu 03/20/08 06:14 PM
wait for her to call u cuz wiff women u can either... 1. call too early and get dumped for being desperate 2. call a lil too early and be dumped for being needy 3. call on time and be dumped for being too anal and punctual 4. call a lil late and be dumped for not showing enuff interest 5. call later and be dumped for being a jerk thats probly got women on the side Or do what they do to me. Don't call. Ever.

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Thu 03/20/08 06:16 PM
Hear you. Call after the good dates, give it a break after the bad ones. Send in the black balloons, eh? Or at least a card, maybe. We can have better days ahead. To err is hoomin.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Thu 03/20/08 06:22 PM
I even had a bad date salvaged by one savvy caller, who waited one day, then called to ask for a do-over. I think that would only work if there was potential for a good date that just went wrong. I think the after date contact is a sticky thing, but can make a big difference depending on the situation.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Thu 03/20/08 06:26 PM
I forgot to mention...good luck with your newfound numbers!

Kaseynej Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 538	Thu 03/20/08 06:54 PM
Okay! Don't give out your address! Or the reason behind it. That just screams desperation. Even if it's not the case. Wait to do this.

mrsilly590 Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 151	Thu 03/20/08 07:01 PM
Never an address, my phone number though is ok

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 03/20/08 07:02 PM
What's it mean when a gal gives you her phone #? Does it mean she wants a call right away? Is a short call OK? When would she want follow up calls? Say within an hour or two after a date, perhaps? I hate to bother people on the phone. Maybe it's different with each individual and I should ask. At any rate, I'd like some feedback on this so I can work things out better. I got a couple of #s. I didn't call. One dumped me after a couple of dates and the other one cancelled a date we had for Saturday, so back to square 1/2, I reckon. Geo. Me thinks you're overthinking this. Get a number. Call a number.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/20/08 07:08 PM
Ive already had to change my number once since Ive joined JSH

mrsilly590 Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 151	Thu 03/20/08 07:09 PM
Jillybean I would like to get to know you, I like the profile

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/20/08 07:15 PM
Jillybean I would like to get to know you, I like the profile me too

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Thu 03/20/08 07:16 PM
Good Grief!! Have you ever wondered why you are single? Just call the number!!

Imbroglio Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 12654	Thu 03/20/08 07:19 PM
I would call right away otherwise I would loose my nerve

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 03/20/08 07:19 PM
Ive already had to change my number once since Ive joined JSH did you have a stalker too?

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Thu 03/20/08 07:20 PM
Haven't really wondered why I'm single. I figured it's cause I'm not married anymore. My wife passed away and it's been the single life ever since. So it goes.

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Thu 03/20/08 07:22 PM
reason I give my address, yeah, a little desperation, but my computer has a bad habit of crashing and so does the web. I tell folks I give my contact info so if things go down the tubes they can still get ahold of me. I like the mail contact, too. I've wrote a couple of letters and got a card back and am told more mail's on the way. I met my last wife through mail correspondence. She wasn't much on using a computer though. Dinosaurs, anyone?