Considering him a dog and listing what you consider his good and bad traits definatly isnt helpful You may have a flawed view of relationships

Oh baby........thanks so much.....you are a true friend in every sense.......

Thanks Mirror, but I have been in very successful relationships and I do know what it takes to make it work. I just dont think he does.

if he gets comfortable after your talk,, and sinks into his old ways.......have your jesse dump cat sh!t in his hair, from your cat-box, tell him also to go to hell, and ask him to get away from you, and go back under the lazy rock he came from.

LMAO

you can't waste your time with giving somebody chance after chance, he has to understand that right off, even an immortal like me gets bored with that......
funny.... an immortal worried about wasting time, go figure.

I think a little courtesy from him wouldn't hurt

Let him know how you feel

If that does not work

Dump his ass

tELL him that men doing dishes makes you hot!!!

Just weigh the options of what you can live with and what you can't!!!

.....ever catch your self bustin ass & bendin over backwards to please and nurture a relationship ....that's because you were really into it/him ....like the title of the book says maybe " He's just not into you "...and the author of the aforementioned book would tell you " Don't waste the pretty !" we can't make or train another person to have chemistry with us ...if it's there it's there if it's not it's not....no amount of stressin , hand ringin , frettin , or boo whooin will change that, come on we've all been on both sides of the "me more, she/he more"... equation he sounds like a great guy for some one with a different set of expectations...I am always dismayed/amazed when I here/see these broads on wife swap who rattle on about women's responsibility to house ,kids and hubby...but they choose that life...some even love it (me/run screamin into the night)...but your share the load guy is else where don't torture either of you by thinkin you can change him , any more than you would become a NASCAR junkie for him...he's not a bad guy, just the wrong guy for you !...onward and upward honey ...!!!


~wicked~

A man doing dishes, vaccumming, dusting, and doing laundry does make me HOTTTTTTT!!!!!!!

The only thing i cannot do is cooking

Have you expressed your irritation with him? Or have you kept it inside hoping he'll figure it out? You need to be direct and let him know these behaviors are not working for you, and tell him what you need. Give him a chance to work on it...or see if he is even willing to do so. As Lilith said, his response will tell you a whole lot. Maybe, he has limited relationship experience.

You hit it right on the nose sweetie, Thanks

I can teach you grasshopper

do you like burnt bacon???

it sure does not hurt to help do the dishes or anything else. i have lived alone for 8 years and i know how much stuff you have to do. if you take the time to cook a meal for someone the least they can do is the dishes. as far as conversation there had to be more than nasscar and politics. politics suck and there is always an arguement. great sex is wonderful but it does slow down later. then what will you have. a man that sits on the couch and does nothing with you. tell him and dump his ass.

I'd love for you to be my master

sure Gypsy

does it really matter if the toilet seat is left up or down, or if the toothpaste is squeezed from the middle or the end? As a former trainer of canines or dogs I can attest to the fact that yes, you can teach old dogs new tricks

Just as long as they dont open their eggs from the large end instead of the small end, everyone know you open it at the small end

Relationships take work and it includes accepting the other person for who they are as a person....So I ask you....have you sat down & listened to his music & shared some of your own....have you sat down to watch Nascar with him & asked him some questions about the sport....and did you walk over to the couch taking his hand & guiding him into the kitchen letting him know that you were going to do this together or suggest(or do together) that he make the next meal....

asking is one thing doing together is more meaningful....and tell me, Is this relationship about 'You'? cause it sounds like it to me....
yeah, many people are saying give up on the relationship...that tells me much about their character & indicates why they are not in a relationship...If you want it to work, then work it....and if you mean it, don't try to change him....but do let him know what's on your mind....cause sharing, and honesty, and communication are all part of the same package....

I wish you the best in making this work....& if it doesn't, then move on....