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Topic: WHY DO MEN HAVE TO LOOK AT OTHER WOMAN?
PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 03/17/08 09:20 AM
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2002 Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 46	Mon 03/17/08 09:23 AM
Looking is one thing. Comments are another. He obviously has no respect for you. Dump his sorry arse. well i would have to agree with you, but first i would ask him...wants you..or what he is commenting on....but, like i said before...and others have said...we need to start within ourselves first.....it will make us a better and stronger person in the long run

carefree101 Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 292	Mon 03/17/08 09:29 AM
If he's making comments like that when she is present...what does he do when she's not around.

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Mon 03/17/08 09:31 AM
There is a difference between looking and commenting. I dpn't get upset at looking. Heck, if a woman walked by with her goods on display, I'd look too. It's hard not to. But the comments, they are rude. I'd not put up with it. I totally agree with this!!! Youre in a relationship you are NOT blind or dead.. there are attractive people everywhere...period.. its the truth and we all know it... To say that you dont look ... is crazy..Looking is one thing, the comments are another..JMO

2002 Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 46	Mon 03/17/08 09:31 AM
If he's making comments like that when she is present...what does he do when she's not around. very good question...i thing we know the answer to that...which doesnt sound very healthy for a relationship...but if she calls him on it..right then and there might make him think about what he has with her...and how he is treating her....

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Mon 03/17/08 09:35 AM
I look at men and women. I'm a natural people watcher. I don't mind my man looking, it's only natural. Comments like the ones you mentioned are very disrespectful and I would have to evaluate the relationship I was in and let him go.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Mon 03/17/08 09:37 AM
Its not the LOOKING that bothers me..it's the fact that they can't just stop there and keep their hands to themselves

sleeplessingermany Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 1490	Mon 03/17/08 09:51 AM
keep in mind that men are a lot more visual than women. nevertheless, if a guy i am with did it all the time it would bother me too. for me it would be a sign of disrespect if strange women got more attention than me. i would seriously re-evaluate this relationship......

OffspringPhreak Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 36	Mon 03/17/08 10:16 AM
I never look when I'm with someone. I've always had the understanding that if I'm with someone; it's because I find them physically attractive(along with having an awesome personality that is); and that she's the only woman I'm with that should be getting attention. I hear all the time about women being upset about their men looking at other women or making comments. To me that's like holding up a big florescent sign that says "I don't have any respect for the woman I'm with!". I could be wrong; but that's my two cents on it.

sasfire75 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 3242	Mon 03/17/08 11:46 AM
I never look when I'm with someone. I've always had the understanding that if I'm with someone; it's because I find them physically attractive(along with having an awesome personality that is); and that she's the only woman I'm with that should be getting attention. I hear all the time about women being upset about their men looking at other women or making comments. To me that's like holding up a big florescent sign that says "I don't have any respect for the woman I'm with!". I could be wrong; but that's my two cents on it. now see that is where i am comeing from...but everyone I am single im not with the jerk anymore...I just posted this because I wanted an insider to this topic...I wanted to know why they do it when you are with them.....It plain out made me feel like I was nothing to him...which now brings my next topic to post....Look for it ...

Timbeaux Joined Thu 03/22/07 Posts: 3	Mon 03/17/08 01:33 PM
While I don't think it's a sin to look at another woman who is attractive, I do think that it depends on how you're looking. If a guy just stands there and stares and makes comments....then he is an idiot! If, however, he simply looks and notices that someone is attractive and then turns and goes about his business, then that is acceptable. Any guy who would make comments is very immature and doesn't deserve to be taken seriously in a relationship.

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 03/17/08 01:50 PM
Unfortunately it is human nature, just like a woman looks at an attractive man when she is with someone. I appreciate a good looking man and if I see one, I look

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 03/17/08 01:52 PM
BECAUSE HE IS A COMPLETE ASS THAT HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOU IF HE HAS TO LOOK AT ANYONE ELSE WHILE BEING WITH YOU THE NEXT TIME HE DOES THAT SMACK HIM IN THE BACK OF THE HEAD AND TELL HIM IF YOU CANT RESPECT ME BY NOT LETTING YOUR EYES WONDER WHILE YOU ARE WITH ME THEN YOU ARE GONNA NEED GEEK GLASSES AFTER I AM DONE WITH YOU I BET HE STOPS Please stop yelling. I hope you are joking about hitting someone... I think it's just fine if my SO's eyes "WONDER". I also do not have a problem with them "wandering". Ah Lilith I love you

BigGlenn Joined Thu 11/30/06 Posts: 4877	Mon 03/17/08 01:53 PM
Have you seen the other women? Suicide by thread

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 03/17/08 01:55 PM
Me single, me look alot lol

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 03/17/08 01:55 PM
Me single, me look alot lol hi doll we know you are single

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 03/17/08 04:26 PM Edited by TheShadow on Mon 03/17/08 04:26 PM
There is nothing wrong with looking and everyone does it and if i see one person say they never done that The thing is having respect, but there are Men/Women that gawk and thats where the problem is.

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Mon 03/17/08 04:30 PM
Why do we look...same reason you look...its nature... Dont have double standards.... Just know when to do it and when not to do it.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 03/17/08 04:47 PM
Why do we look...same reason you look...its nature... Dont have double standards.... Just know when to do it and when not to do it. Just know when to do it and when not to do it. Ill have to disagree. That tells me there is not respect for the one your with. Thats like saying when you hang out with the guys it's ok to gawk

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Mon 03/17/08 04:49 PM
Why do we look...same reason you look...its nature... Dont have double standards.... Just know when to do it and when not to do it. Just know when to do it and when not to do it. Ill have to disagree. That tells me there is not respect for the one your with. Thats like saying when you hang out with the guys it's ok to gawk No not at all...If Im in a committed relationship I know its time to focus my attention on them...why would I want to look.