I am having trouble on how long before you set up a meeting with someone,or even a phone call.

for a week or longer.

from what ive gathered as soon as you both feel comfortable

It's entirely up to what you and the other person feels comfortable with.

Asking rather than demanding is a good way to go about it.

Or you could just pass her a note in study hall. . . .

whenever it feels right

right away if the both of you seem to hit it off together

when the background check comes thru and the blood work is done

dont forget the dna test.. lol

thanks almost forgot

no problem.. we all got each others back on jsh

in your case...chest and back

The smartest advice I can give you is to let the woman feel like she's in control. Some women want to take there time getting to know a guy with emails and phone calls first. Other women are faster and want to meet as soon as possible.

One way to break the ice is to ask her about her ideal first date. Where would it be? What would you do together? Is someplace quiet and casual the best for her, or does she like something else? Then you can ask when you can have that "ideal" date with her.

There are no hard and fast rules on when to meet because no two women are identical. Get two women in a room and you'd get two different answers on this question. One thing I wouldn't do is try to pressure a woman into meeting you. That's a No No. Let her feel like she's in control of how fast things move and it will really turn out a lot better for you in the long run.

One thing you can do is give her a choice. Would she like to talk with you on the phone or chat with you on Yahoo or AIM? Some women don't want you to have their phone number until they feel they know you well enough. The chat will get you around that problem.

One last idea if she'd timid about meeting you in person. Assuming she's interested in meeting you face to face but not sure she wants to go out on a date, suggest a Starbuck date. You meet at Starbucks for about a half an hour...longer if things are going really well. All she has to agree to is the half hour. If she liked you, she'll go out with you. If she didn't like you, all you're out is the price of the coffee.

go with your gut.