Topic: Why do they do it? | |
---|---|
Why do guys just break your heart and think nothing of it? Been talking to someone on JSH for a while now and it was going so well. Now he is online and won't respond to IM's or emails. It breaks my heart. Tired of crying over men.
|
|
|
|
Had you met yet?
|
|
|
|
Why do guys just break your heart and think nothing of it? Been talking to someone on JSH for a while now and it was going so well. Now he is online and won't respond to IM's or emails. It breaks my heart. Tired of crying over men. |
|
|
|
hon, he could be away from the computer and still on line, and the im's here are not very reliable, and the emails take time sometimes. just hang in there sweety. think positive.
|
|
|
|
Just so you know, it's not just the guys who do it.
A lofty number of females do this exact thing, too. Even worse is the fact that they put on the "poor helpless victim" act when you call them on their crap. AND they're much more vindictive as well. As a person who's had to deal with several ladies who were of this ilk, it's not pleasant in the least. |
|
|
|
Why do guys just break your heart and think nothing of it? Been talking to someone on JSH for a while now and it was going so well. Now he is online and won't respond to IM's or emails. It breaks my heart. Tired of crying over men. |
|
|
|
Just so you know, it's not just the guys who do it. A lofty number of females do this exact thing, too. Even worse is the fact that they put on the "poor helpless victim" act when you call them on their crap. AND they're much more vindictive as well. As a person who's had to deal with several ladies who were of this ilk, it's not pleasant in the least. Yeah, at least he talked to you. Most women I’ve e-mailed (only a few) just ignored me completely. I’d rather they had the common decency to reject me to my face. That’s at least better than being ignored. I mean its not like you’re going to break my heart when we’ve never even spoken. |
|
|
|
Dont make others suffer for the actions of one.
Not all men are that way. |
|
|
|
We haven't met yet but he would send me tons of email always telling me the stuff you want to hear and then he just disappeared.
|
|
|
|
Why do guys just break your heart and think nothing of it? Been talking to someone on JSH for a while now and it was going so well. Now he is online and won't respond to IM's or emails. It breaks my heart. Tired of crying over men. your right..dont any more..they arent worth it..that special someone is out there for u, just be patient |
|
|
|
Just so you know, it's not just the guys who do it. A lofty number of females do this exact thing, too. Even worse is the fact that they put on the "poor helpless victim" act when you call them on their crap. AND they're much more vindictive as well. As a person who's had to deal with several ladies who were of this ilk, it's not pleasant in the least. Yeah, at least he talked to you. Most women I’ve e-mailed (only a few) just ignored me completely. I’d rather they had the common decency to reject me to my face. That’s at least better than being ignored. I mean its not like you’re going to break my heart when we’ve never even spoken. |
|
|
|
I have chatted with a few guys who just dropped off the face of the earth. What I don't get is they all say they are tired of the head games and looking for someone honest. I guess they need to find that in themselves before they look for it in someone else.
|
|
|
|
I am only speaking from experience, it has happened to me a number of times.
I agree with you Mrelectric, they should at least say thank you but I am not intesested, and that you can remain as new friends. |
|
|
|
We haven't met yet but he would send me tons of email always telling me the stuff you want to hear and then he just disappeared. |
|
|
|
its not a male or female issue,its some people
|
|
|
|
Thanks for all your support, I appreciate it and it is comforting to know you all care enough to respond. Love you all
|
|
|
|
We haven't met yet but he would send me tons of email always telling me the stuff you want to hear and then he just disappeared. AND YES DUDES,,,lol IM TALKING bout ladies,lol |
|
|
|
not every guy does that. ... some yes but there are women who do the same.
|
|
|
|
Thank you Joycro. I don’t know why some girls are so timid about rejecting guys. Guys are used to being rejected by most women. It’s part of the evolutionary process. It’s not like I’m some kind of rock star or celebrity. We men are used to it, it’s part of the game but, ignoring someone is just arrogant and rude.
|
|
|
|
I agree completely Cajun, but for now I was talking about my issue. The are givers and takers out there. I was involved with two takers, selfish men. I am a giver to a fault and I guess that has to stop.
|
|
|