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Topic: Why do they do it?
joycro53's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:29 PM
Why do guys just break your heart and think nothing of it? Been talking to someone on JSH for a while now and it was going so well. Now he is online and won't respond to IM's or emails. It breaks my heart. Tired of crying over men.

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:31 PM
Had you met yet?

Dragonbite's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:32 PM

Why do guys just break your heart and think nothing of it? Been talking to someone on JSH for a while now and it was going so well. Now he is online and won't respond to IM's or emails. It breaks my heart. Tired of crying over men.
Not all men are dogs keep the faithflowerforyou

justme659's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:32 PM
hon, he could be away from the computer and still on line, and the im's here are not very reliable, and the emails take time sometimes. just hang in there sweety. think positive.

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Sun 03/16/08 04:33 PM
Just so you know, it's not just the guys who do it.

A lofty number of females do this exact thing, too. Even worse is the fact that they put on the "poor helpless victim" act when you call them on their crap. AND they're much more vindictive as well.

As a person who's had to deal with several ladies who were of this ilk, it's not pleasant in the least.

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Sun 03/16/08 04:36 PM


Why do guys just break your heart and think nothing of it? Been talking to someone on JSH for a while now and it was going so well. Now he is online and won't respond to IM's or emails. It breaks my heart. Tired of crying over men.
Not all men are dogs keep the faithflowerforyou
no, but most are

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Sun 03/16/08 04:37 PM

Just so you know, it's not just the guys who do it.

A lofty number of females do this exact thing, too. Even worse is the fact that they put on the "poor helpless victim" act when you call them on their crap. AND they're much more vindictive as well.

As a person who's had to deal with several ladies who were of this ilk, it's not pleasant in the least.

Yeah, at least he talked to you. Most women I’ve e-mailed (only a few) just ignored me completely. I’d rather they had the common decency to reject me to my face. That’s at least better than being ignored. I mean its not like you’re going to break my heart when we’ve never even spoken.

steelersgirltina's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:37 PM
Dont make others suffer for the actions of one.
Not all men are that way.

joycro53's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:38 PM
We haven't met yet but he would send me tons of email always telling me the stuff you want to hear and then he just disappeared.

Sexyklp4U's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:38 PM

Why do guys just break your heart and think nothing of it? Been talking to someone on JSH for a while now and it was going so well. Now he is online and won't respond to IM's or emails. It breaks my heart. Tired of crying over men.


your right..dontsad any more..they arent worth it..that special someone is out there for u, just be patientflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 03/16/08 04:38 PM


Just so you know, it's not just the guys who do it.

A lofty number of females do this exact thing, too. Even worse is the fact that they put on the "poor helpless victim" act when you call them on their crap. AND they're much more vindictive as well.

As a person who's had to deal with several ladies who were of this ilk, it's not pleasant in the least.

Yeah, at least he talked to you. Most women I’ve e-mailed (only a few) just ignored me completely. I’d rather they had the common decency to reject me to my face. That’s at least better than being ignored. I mean its not like you’re going to break my heart when we’ve never even spoken.
i can't help but find validity in your remarks

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Sun 03/16/08 04:39 PM
I have chatted with a few guys who just dropped off the face of the earth. What I don't get is they all say they are tired of the head games and looking for someone honest. I guess they need to find that in themselves before they look for it in someone else.

joycro53's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:40 PM
I am only speaking from experience, it has happened to me a number of times.

I agree with you Mrelectric, they should at least say thank you but I am not intesested, and that you can remain as new friends.

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Sun 03/16/08 04:40 PM

We haven't met yet but he would send me tons of email always telling me the stuff you want to hear and then he just disappeared.
sounds like just another blow-hard who probably was'nt worth your time anyway. just deep on kickin you will find someone exceedingly more desirable

itry's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:42 PM
:wink: its not a male or female issue,its some mad people

joycro53's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:43 PM
Thanks for all your support, I appreciate it and it is comforting to know you all care enough to respond. Love you all

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Sun 03/16/08 04:44 PM

We haven't met yet but he would send me tons of email always telling me the stuff you want to hear and then he just disappeared.
drinker STAY GAURDED ALWAYS,,,let time and really meeting them in person, be the WALL breakers,,,but the walls keep them far enough back that the hurt, is small. GOOD LUCK

AND YES DUDES,,,lol IM TALKING bout ladies,lolbigsmile

cajunwhitetiger's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:44 PM
not every guy does that. ... some yes but there are women who do the same.

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Sun 03/16/08 04:45 PM
Thank you Joycro. I don’t know why some girls are so timid about rejecting guys. Guys are used to being rejected by most women. It’s part of the evolutionary process. It’s not like I’m some kind of rock star or celebrity. We men are used to it, it’s part of the game but, ignoring someone is just arrogant and rude.

joycro53's photo
Sun 03/16/08 04:47 PM
I agree completely Cajun, but for now I was talking about my issue. The are givers and takers out there. I was involved with two takers, selfish men. I am a giver to a fault and I guess that has to stop.

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