Dont give up...there is someone for you..just because they live far away..doesnt mean it wont work i have always believed that the heart has no distance...example...i have been talking to people in other states and have gotten close..never thought it would work...and that i would be stuck here in Indiana...now i found out..where i work is closing their doors..and i am getting to retire...early...with benefits...now I can go...where i want to...and just maybe ... I can make it work with one of the people i have been keeping in touch with...good luck