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Too many people set boundaries for themselves,for example,someone only this age,or only to this age,want a black one,over a white man!
One should leave their limitations open,in my opinion they would stand a better chance of finding the right one.Is a matter of being in the RIGHT place at the RIGHT time!Is all a matter of timing!  Rodster |
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Well put brother!!! Couldn't agree with you more!
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People have preferences, everyone is different..
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Well, I wouldn't want someone to loosen up their boundaries to include me...I want to be what he is looking for! So, boundaries are important in my opinion.
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While I agree that there are a lot of instances where someone's criteria seem a little excessive {"looking for age 24-27"), some preferences are there for a reason.
I won't date anyone who drinks, period, end of story. Been there, done that, got stabbed, watched people I love crash and burn and die because of drinking. No way I would ever go through that again. If you're telling me my choices are to date a drinker or be alone forever, I'll stay alone. |
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While I agree that there are a lot of instances where someone's criteria seem a little excessive {"looking for age 24-27"), some preferences are there for a reason. I won't date anyone who drinks, period, end of story. Been there, done that, got stabbed, watched people I love crash and burn and die because of drinking. No way I would ever go through that again. If you're telling me my choices are to date a drinker or be alone forever, I'll stay alone. That means you wont date me, Lex?  
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While I agree that there are a lot of instances where someone's criteria seem a little excessive {"looking for age 24-27"), some preferences are there for a reason. I won't date anyone who drinks, period, end of story. Been there, done that, got stabbed, watched people I love crash and burn and die because of drinking. No way I would ever go through that again. If you're telling me my choices are to date a drinker or be alone forever, I'll stay alone. And that is good to know, because I will drink on occassion...mainly holidays and I would not be a good choice for you. Nor , you me. |
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Thankyou for your kind response.Is nice to know someone aggress with my opinions!
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IT ALL A MATTER OF MIND SET....YOU ATRACT EXCTLY WHAT U WANT.....
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That means you wont date me, Lex? Well, you're cute and everything, but you know....
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WELL PUT SISTER
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While I agree that there are a lot of instances where someone's criteria seem a little excessive {"looking for age 24-27"), some preferences are there for a reason. I won't date anyone who drinks, period, end of story. Been there, done that, got stabbed, watched people I love crash and burn and die because of drinking. No way I would ever go through that again. If you're telling me my choices are to date a drinker or be alone forever, I'll stay alone. That means you wont date me, Lex? GREAT MAN..... |
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I used to think that if someone did not state a preference they were only out for one thing-SEX- but lately rethought that. Maybe people don't state a preference, because it just doesn't matter to them. Height,weight.ethnicity, background -as my eyes were opened lately-I see the inner person is what is important. There are good and bad people in every walk of life. Just because a person looks or seems a certain way they are any better or worse then you.
Barbara |
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People have preferences, everyone is different.. I agree with this statement. If I want to date a certain age, or race, I should be able to limit access to only what I want. 
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People have preferences, everyone is different.. I agree with this statement. If I want to date a certain age, or race, I should be able to limit access to only what I want. 
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very god topic,,,,,,,,,but i feel like most every one is searching for something that not gonna happen,reduce ur limits an let natuer take it's course
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very god topic,,,,,,,,,but i feel like most every one is searching for something that not gonna happen,reduce ur limits an let natuer take it's course |
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im 43 and get e-mails from girls in there 20s and a lot of them set there limits for know one over 30 makes no sence to me
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At least it lets you know before hand what that person wants and if it ain't you, keep looking. There's lots of choices here. Why would you want to date someone you know up front really isn't interested in you or your values. It will only lead to problems later on. If you settle at the beginning of a relationship you will only set yourself up to settle later on for half your stuff.
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I used to think that if someone did not state a preference they were only out for one thing-SEX- but lately rethought that. Maybe people don't state a preference, because it just doesn't matter to them. Height,weight.ethnicity, background -as my eyes were opened lately-I see the inner person is what is important. There are good and bad people in every walk of life. Just because a person looks or seems a certain way they are any better or worse then you. Barbara i agree with you there the inside is what matters
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