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Topic: what would you do if..
littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sat 03/15/08 10:26 AM
Oh & after treated a waitress like that, don't eat anything she brings, &ask someone else for a clean fork. I'd switch meals with the flirting boy friend!.

ShyKBear Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 368	Sat 03/15/08 10:30 AM
Ok here's another question along those lines... Now if your married, in a serious relationship, yada yada, you leave bf/gf husband wife at home; go out with your friends, co workers whatever. You get hit on....Do you tell your significant other? And if you do, what is their reaction or your reaction?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 03/15/08 10:30 AM
Call the waiter over & quietly tell him if he doesn't knock it off, He will be dealt with after work!! Thats how I do it..

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/15/08 10:49 AM
Ohhhhhhhh I would sit there and smile but give that smile only us women know....

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 03/15/08 10:55 AM
you're at a restaurant, on a date with your husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, someone you're trying to get to know.. ect. and the waiter is flirting with, and hitting on that person a lot.. how would you honestly react?.. and don't say you'd stand up and deck them in the face, because i really don't think anyone would do that, especially in a restaurant. It would depend on how my date reacts to it. Ok here's another question along those lines... Now if your married, in a serious relationship, yada yada, you leave bf/gf husband wife at home; go out with your friends, co workers whatever. You get hit on....Do you tell your significant other? And if you do, what is their reaction or your reaction? No, I wouldn't want her telling me either.

exit56 Joined Sat 02/16/08 Posts: 660	Sat 03/15/08 10:56 AM
would you still leave a tip?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/15/08 10:58 AM
would you still leave a tip? hELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NO!!!

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Sat 03/15/08 10:59 AM
I'd simply say " Are the meals here as cheap as the help?"

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/15/08 10:59 AM
tHE funny thing about this situation is that when I was a hairstylist I would get dirty looks from wives/gfs for just cutting a guys hair!!! I would have to not smile or be friendly just to compensate the gf. I thought this was a seriously stupid way to go about it but I hated getting those daggers in my back!!

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 03/15/08 11:15 AM
I'd simply say " Are the meals here as cheap as the help?" excellent

me2g Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 1285	Sat 03/15/08 11:19 AM
Call the waiter over & quietly tell him if he doesn't knock it off, He will be dealt with after work!! Thats how I do it.. Preach on Brother PATSFAN!! as... neanderthal as it sounds its mostly a guy thing I think... innocent flirting is one thing... I think we all do that here.. but we know where that fine line is and when its crossed.. besides hes there to do his job... not my signif. other

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 03/15/08 11:48 AM
Let it go, not much in life worth getting a fit over anymore...at the very least I go home alone, at most she knows I trust her judgement...my opinion on those two outcomes: Win/Win situation.

elsathebloody Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 2107	Sat 03/15/08 03:00 PM
I'd ignore it. And if my date was flirting back I would 1- not date them anymore if it's the first date 2- If I'm really close to them, talk to them about it afterwards