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Topic: what would u do?
fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:12 PM
Yeh im pissed and sad over her screwing me over but would u suggest
calling her or leaving her be. Just want to get some straight anwsers
cause its buggin me. She may be avoiding me. Some may say y dont u call
her if u want anwsers but i seem to have lost that number and am anyways
coughing up a lung i think im sick so cant talk much anyway. Thanks to
all who have given me advice thus far.

no photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:15 PM
leave her be I have been there done that trust me dude it's goin nowhere
and if it's meant to go somewhere maybe some silence and abscence of you
will make her see it, I doubt it but either way you will be the winner

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:18 PM
thats is ture if she wants to call she knows where i am. Just wish i was
feeling better and could go out and do somthin

iceman1987's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:18 PM
ya man forget her. Some women are not meant to be wasting time with

iceman1987's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:18 PM
ya man forget her. Some women are not meant to be wasting time with

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:21 PM
yeh i guess time to start back on square one. It sucks cause i was used
to centering my time around her now i got to find other stuff to do.

no photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:23 PM
yeah but if you waste the best years of your life with her like I did my
ex you'll reget it more and it will hurt more later

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:27 PM
hmmm u do have a good pt. she was worth it in my eyes we did have
diffrences but that was ok to me. But somtimes women are too dumb to see
whats infront of them.

Lastofakind's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:29 PM
I agree with everyone, if she screwed you over now your going to believe
what she tells you. Trust and Honesty are important building blocks of
a relationship. Once broken there will always be doubt in the back of
your mind. People don't need drama in their lives, it only confuses
what you want to do or become.

Lastofakind's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:29 PM
I agree with everyone, if she screwed you over now your going to believe
what she tells you. Trust and Honesty are important building blocks of
a relationship. Once broken there will always be doubt in the back of
your mind. People don't need drama in their lives, it only confuses
what you want to do or become.

aleacim831's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:33 PM
Didn't we already discuss this lol I hope you figure things out hun. :)

no photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:33 PM
and if you both are able to produce kids, is this the kind of
environment you wish for them to have? Are you willing to pay her an
ungodly amount of child support each month? Will she let you see them
when you want or they want? will she use them as a weapon to hurt you,
hurting them and scarring them for life? alot of things should be looked
at but mostly since there are no iids yet, life is short and you can
waste it on her if she keeps pulling this **** for years to come.

slowtogetit's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:39 PM
i'm with you there mike, if only jsh was around for us when we were
young and dumb..lol

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:44 PM
all have great pts srry i do apologize for dwelling on it im just bord
as hell

lea's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:48 PM
well im one of thoses girls who keeps giving her man a second
chances...well second chances have turned into 3,4,5,6,7,8
etc...chances...its not that he cheats on me but he likes the nose candy
too much....i pay for everything...rent,bills,groceries...crazy huh? i
just left him again and now im here in houston with work and things are
ok cause im not home what happens when i go home this weekend? well if
your able to move on ..move on...good luck!!!!!!!!!!i need to find some
new hobbies too hehe

lea's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:50 PM
hey sometimes it good to just talk about how pissed off u are!!!

no photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:57 PM
yes it does but better to not let anything piss ya off anymore
I learned that

sugargirl's photo
Wed 01/03/07 06:05 PM
Hey fivespeed, you got to stop dwelling! In my opinion, no woman is
going to be attracted to a paranoid guy,
relax........breathe........besides like I said before, your to cute!!

no photo
Wed 01/03/07 06:09 PM
a paranoid woman might be lol

sugargirl's photo
Wed 01/03/07 06:10 PM
Mike, you have some very good points!! Job well done, my friend!!

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