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Topic: HMMM OK OR NOT???????/
no photo
Sat 03/15/08 09:52 AM
It's a personal preference.
Me?...NOT into sharing!

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/15/08 10:47 AM
Personal choice, but not for me, I don't like sharing my thingsblushing bigsmile

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 03/15/08 10:50 AM

Personal choice, but not for me, I don't like sharing my thingsblushing bigsmile



(((((((bg)))))) how are you honey?

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/15/08 10:52 AM


Personal choice, but not for me, I don't like sharing my thingsblushing bigsmile



(((((((bg)))))) how are you honey?


Hey darling I am good I have some things going on, I will email you later and we will talk okay

Love you and miss youflowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 03/15/08 10:53 AM



Personal choice, but not for me, I don't like sharing my thingsblushing bigsmile



(((((((bg)))))) how are you honey?


Hey darling I am good I have some things going on, I will email you later and we will talk okay

Love you and miss youflowerforyou



OK good.. I've missed the hell out of you lady love... flowerforyou

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/15/08 10:56 AM
And you are my lady love as well and I have missed the hell out of you. Has a decision been made about the trip yet?




Personal choice, but not for me, I don't like sharing my thingsblushing bigsmile



(((((((bg)))))) how are you honey?


Hey darling I am good I have some things going on, I will email you later and we will talk okay

Love you and miss youflowerforyou



OK good.. I've missed the hell out of you lady love... flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 03/15/08 10:58 AM
not yet, I'm waiting to hear from V. He was going yesterday I think, but I didn't see him on last night nor did he call...

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:01 AM

not yet, I'm waiting to hear from V. He was going yesterday I think, but I didn't see him on last night nor did he call...



Okay and I am going to be talking to him probably Monday so we shall see **crossing fingers**

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:05 AM


not yet, I'm waiting to hear from V. He was going yesterday I think, but I didn't see him on last night nor did he call...



Okay and I am going to be talking to him probably Monday so we shall see **crossing fingers**


Ok, I'm sure we'll see him here too.. Fingers are crossed...

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:06 AM
Edited by bad_girl on Sat 03/15/08 11:06 AM
Yep we will I am going out for a while tonight and if you see him tell him I love him and we will talk okay

Love you doll face



not yet, I'm waiting to hear from V. He was going yesterday I think, but I didn't see him on last night nor did he call...



Okay and I am going to be talking to him probably Monday so we shall see **crossing fingers**


Ok, I'm sure we'll see him here too.. Fingers are crossed...

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:23 AM

personal thoughts... if you truely love the person its just not respectful



I agree. To me if a guy wants an additional partner and would be okay with sharing ME, I'm insulted and truly do not believe he loves me. No thanks. :wink:

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:33 AM


personal thoughts... if you truely love the person its just not respectful



I agree. To me if a guy wants an additional partner and would be okay with sharing ME, I'm insulted and truly do not believe he loves me. No thanks. :wink:


Well said (((fade)))

me2g's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:43 AM


personal thoughts... if you truely love the person its just not respectful



I agree. To me if a guy wants an additional partner and would be okay with sharing ME, I'm insulted and truly do not believe he loves me. No thanks. :wink:


exactly... guys do you want some stranger touching your lady in her most intimate private places with anypart of his body?? I know i dont.. thats for you and her only. as fun and exciting as the idea sounds to have another lady involved with you and yours.. put yourself in your partners place.. its saying to them "you alone do not satisfy or complete me" Im sure most ladies don't want someone else groping or fondling your man either... mutual or not it is truely disrespectful to them and only weakens the bond that ties you together. man... how do I get suckered into these threads??grumble

texasrose9's photo
Sat 03/15/08 12:09 PM



personal thoughts... if you truely love the person its just not respectful



I agree. To me if a guy wants an additional partner and would be okay with sharing ME, I'm insulted and truly do not believe he loves me. No thanks. :wink:


exactly... guys do you want some stranger touching your lady in her most intimate private places with anypart of his body?? I know i dont.. thats for you and her only. as fun and exciting as the idea sounds to have another lady involved with you and yours.. put yourself in your partners place.. its saying to them "you alone do not satisfy or complete me" Im sure most ladies don't want someone else groping or fondling your man either... mutual or not it is truely disrespectful to them and only weakens the bond that ties you together. man... how do I get suckered into these threads??grumble


I would agree with the above statements, and also with another poster who stated that if one partner wanted to bring a third party into the situation, there may be something else wrong in the relationship.
Ultimately, it must be desired and accepted by both partners, but this is usually not the case. One partner is often pressured into it by the other. It DOES make the pressured person feel inadequate or wonder why their significant other wants to do this. I have been in this position with an ex, who at one time or another literally OBSESSED about a threesome with another woman, and at other times wanted to share ME with his friends.... which I did find incredibly insulting. My thought was, how could he do that and really care about me?

me2g's photo
Sat 03/15/08 12:13 PM
see.. its guys like that, that give real MEN a bad wrap

texasrose9's photo
Sat 03/15/08 12:16 PM

see.. its guys like that, that give real MEN a bad wrap


What's worse..... we were engaged at the time.

me2g's photo
Sat 03/15/08 12:32 PM
Edited by me2g on Sat 03/15/08 12:33 PM
I had the opportunity several times with my last g/f and believe me the thought was enticing... I just couldn't do it.. I didn't ever want something as petty as that coming back and biting me in the ass.. the sad part is she didn't understand?? riddle me that one???

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