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      i got a girl that one min we are fine then the next she is coming out  
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      she's picky?  not sure?  keeping her options open? 
  try askin her  | 
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      LG, he can TRY. But if it's anything like what I been through, you will  
  never get an answer that you want to hear. She wants her cake and eat it too. I say dump her. Find somebody that cares about your feelings too!  | 
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      well she was depressed and pmsing along with that had ended up talking  
  to her ex last night. They are now just sex buddies I have put my all in this girl and says im boring, not her type how can that be if she came onto me? Says we arnt goin to work. Yet after each time we go out she says she has had fun. I hope she didnt mean all of that. kept on refrencing her ex on how they could have fun anywhere. All i have been is nice and caring and been there for her and she gives me this  | 
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      As soon as he dumps on her again, she will be back in your arms. Don't  
  do this to yourself!!  | 
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      ill try to take ur advice man i have gotten screwed over 3 times maby im  
  too nice as people have somtimes said  | 
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      Being nice is good man. But draw the line. As long as the X is in the  
  picture (for sex or whatever), you have a problem. You are not in a good situation. Good luck to you.  | 
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      so then she's keeping her "options" open.. 
  nerves is right, she'll come runnin back to ya the minute her X doesn't pay attention to her again.. dump her and move on...she's not worth the effort you're obviously puttin into it  | 
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      Trust your instincts fivespeed. Been there done that and it ain't nice  
  any way you look at it!  | 
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      i thought that too but she was acting like she was working past her x. i  
  think she was using me for her money. im goin to talk to her face to face tonight cause i dont like typin alot of stuff can be said over the internet  | 
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      True and you are probably right. You can always just use her for sex! 
  LMAO  | 
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      problem with that dude she says im too big didnt know that was ever a  
  prob for women  | 
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      I ain't going there. I ain't had no complaints! 
  Hahaha  | 
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      There are tons of women in the world why waste time on one that  
  obviously doesn't want what you want. Why would you want to settle on something your not sure about? There are lots of confident stable women out there not mooning over their ex's. But hey if you want a women like her go for it.  | 
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      hahhah we will just keep it at that thanks for the advice man
     
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      no way..she says you're too big???  lmao 
  sorry..not tryin to imply you're not...but that's just funny.. sorry, that's an excuse..nothing more  | 
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      aleacim831 - well i really didnt plan on that. I have a prob of ending  
  up in odd relationships that mess me over in the end. I wish i could find one that wasnt morning over her ex. who knows i might need help.  | 
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      ellgee1976- i know it was an excuse thats the stupidest one i have  
  heard. I thought in a womens eyes bigger was better but i guess somtimes not. Says at first she was goin to but then changed her mind says she is picky who she sleeps with.  | 
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      You can always stay single lol Thats what I do works for me and  
  eventually you'll meet someone you want to be with. Don't rush into things either you can tell if a woman misses her ex or isn't over him easily because she'll either talk non stop about him or compare you to him. There are many other ways to tell but those are two I can think of.  | 
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      aleacim831- well she did both of those. she would occasionaly mention  
  him but not that much. Go figure her excuse i think for wanting to see him mainly is to get laid again. Lame exuse. I try to to rush into thing . i just want somone to luv me for me. She did i thought but it wasnt the case  | 
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