I have to say that I dont uderstand why someone would want to play games with someone elses feelings. I was dating this really nice guy and we were gettng along really good and then one day about two weeks ago he emails me and says that he didnt want to see me anymore. Then this past Tuesday I get this phone call from him saying that he wanted another chance, well I said yes and he promised me that he wanted to be with me and only me and that he knew what he wanted, well then tonight comes and we go out to dinner and when we get back, he leaves without saying goodbye and when I call him to ask him what is going on he says that he doesnt want to see me anymore because he doesnt know what he wants. If he wants to be with me or his exwife. I feel like all he was doing was playing games and thats not fair. He should have just left me alone. I know that this happens with both men and women and I dont think that it is right. Someone always gets hurt in the end. Why couldnt he just leave me alone from the first time?????

Cuz ppl can be very selfish. They arent worrying about how the other person feels, just about themselves

some guys just dont understand what they want in life, and that is why they become loners and hermits, and monks. LOL
Sorry to hear about what happened, and i hope things get better for you soon

girls are selfish too and they play alots of game than man,

because he doesn't know what he wants....plain and simple. he should have been honest and say in the beginning that he is unsure....then you would know where you stand.

some people just don't think of others in this world but there are still great people that do think of others

I have one that did that to me FOR YEARS. (my fault, I know)

He was not playing games so much as weak and unable to decide what to do.

He actually got divorced; moved in with me; then went back and remarried.

She can keep him.

Girl, if I knew the answer to that I probably wouldn't be here...

As I said I know that both men and women do this, its not right for either one to do it, someone always gets hurt. I dont know anyone that wants to get hurt.

I most women

Im sorry please forgive me

Honesty and openess that's what it all boils down too. If he was unsure of his feelings for his ex then he needed to be honest with you from the beginning.

We've all heard the song....

you dont know what you got til its gone

I love to play a game of pool every chance i get........That messes with a person's head when they lose.......

No one wants to get hurt but everyone is trying to get their needs met. Sometimes needs collide and someone gets hurt. It isn't always that someone was trying to hurt you; or that they didn't care if they hurt you. Sometimes people are just trying to get through life the best they can and they make mistakes; and people get hurt. I try not to take these things too, too personally, because usually the other person's agenda is not about me.

as hard as it may be in the beginning...you are better off knowing now before you got in too deep

why do people post this question every day???

In the situation I had, it wasn't his feelings for her that were the problem - but he just felt like he had abandoned his kids. He just isn't one of those guys who can live away from his kids. He tried.

He tried several times to do it; nearly ripping my heart out in the process.


In the end, he couldn't. My daughter and my friends hate him for putting me through so many ups and downs, but I always knew where his heart was and why he did what he did.

Some people would say he played games but he was just weak.

that should have been your 1st clue if he didnt have the nerve to tell you in person hes not worth giving a second chance.

I read your profile and Im old enough to be your dads age so let me give you some fatherly advice... Your better than him and can do much better. (((((Hugs)))))

This guy doesn't sound like he knows what he wants. He might be fun for a few dates here and there but'd be a bad bet for getting serious with. Sav yourself the grief, eh?