Topic: signed re:head used as a punching
kittysingleforever's photo
Fri 03/14/08 06:41 PM
hi all thank you last night for helping me in my time of need. i signed the warrant this morning getting a protection order mon. and fieing for divorce monday. i am sad but i am also happy i feel like i am breaking the chains to be free again. thanks again kitty

malibu23wi's photo
Fri 03/14/08 06:46 PM
i am soooo happy for you...if you need anything...even just someone to talk to..let me know...((hugs)) am always here for people if they need it.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 03/14/08 06:49 PM
drinker Good. smokin cause the dude tried to freakin kill yousmokin

lcjw's photo
Fri 03/14/08 06:53 PM
Oh Kitty! I am so happy for you. the road ahead is not going to be easy, but it will get better as time goes by. I promise you that. don't give up and stay true to yourself. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Tim_Burgess's photo
Sat 03/15/08 04:33 AM
im glad that you got away from that bad relationship...just remember that it will be hard, but if you can what is right towards that b@stard who hit you, you can do anything. what you did took alot of curage, and i commend you for that.flowerforyou

me2g's photo
Sat 03/15/08 05:28 AM
where I grew up there was a word for Guys that were like that.... Missing

monkdog8888's photo
Sat 03/15/08 05:37 AM
He is going to come back and beg your forgiveness and tell you he will change, ect,ect. STAND YOUR GROUND. DO NOT GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE. He is never evver going to change. He is going to be working on you real hard for the next few weeks. He what buttons to push. STAND YOUR GROUND. Good luck to you.

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/15/08 05:38 AM

where I grew up there was a word for Guys that were like that.... Missing


That is the same word we use hereflowerforyou

ellgee1976's photo
Sat 03/15/08 08:40 AM
you've taken the first step : deciding

once you've made a decision, you have a goal, everything else falls in place, it's just routine to physically DO those things..

when i left the ass, it took me 6 months to decide to do it, i had my apt key for 2 weeks waiting on him to get served so i could take my daughter with me

the most difficult part, was deciding on whether or not i was gonna leave him...everything else fell into place

good luck, and congrats flowerforyou

texasrose9's photo
Sat 03/15/08 12:14 PM

He is going to come back and beg your forgiveness and tell you he will change, ect,ect. STAND YOUR GROUND. DO NOT GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE. He is never evver going to change. He is going to be working on you real hard for the next few weeks. He what buttons to push. STAND YOUR GROUND. Good luck to you.



Wise advice. Turn a deaf ear to anything he says, but be careful. This is the most critical and dangerous phase of getting out of an abusive relationship. When he realizes you are really leaving him...it's a control issue... and he could take the abuse a step further.