Topic: HELP! He cant kiss!
LandRover28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:43 PM
No offense and all, but isn't this something you would'vew figured out looooong before you started having sex? huh

starryeyed346's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:43 PM

No offense and all, but isn't this something you would'vew figured out looooong before you started having sex? huh


He kissed me the first few times we've had sex. Since then, sex has turned from love making to hair pulling, biting and ass smacking... lol

no photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:43 PM
Actually this sounds rather bizarre but possible I imagine.I'm willing 2 believe that he's not good @ it because of this dog licking thing he's got going on.Sit besides him on the couch & tell him straight on that U need this & that it's vital to wards your shared intimacy.Show him the steps very slowly & have him repeat each 1 before U move 2 the next.Set the background a bit 2 enhance the environment.If his desire weakens while U are teaching him step by step then the prob.is more serious than on the surface.I hope not though.Good Luck dear.Godspeed!Cypoetflowerforyou

LandRover28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:46 PM


No offense and all, but isn't this something you would'vew figured out looooong before you started having sex? huh


He kissed me the first few times we've had sex. Since then, sex has turned from love making to hair pulling, biting and ass smacking... lol


No I mean didn't he kiss you plenty before you started having sex? At which point you could have noticed it long before or did you start start having sex without even a kiss?

bobdesigns4262's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:46 PM
hell, kiss me then..then i'll slapp your butt and pull your hair...but i'll kiss ya and cuddle afterwards

LandRover28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:47 PM
Does he know how to give you good oral?

bobdesigns4262's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:48 PM
you can pull my ears too

tinabelle's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:50 PM


No offense and all, but isn't this something you would'vew figured out looooong before you started having sex? huh


He kissed me the first few times we've had sex. Since then, sex has turned from love making to hair pulling, biting and ass smacking... lol

theres no kissing allowed in hair pulling, biting, and ars smacking- i thought everybody knew that.


on the kissing thing...how bout you just bum rush him once or twice and you KISS him.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:52 PM
huh How old is this guy ? huh

starryeyed346's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:52 PM

Does he know how to give you good oral?


My oh my, you ask a lot of questions. For your information.. I have my own issues regarding the r-word. We dated for quite a while, and he swept me off my feet and spoiled me. The very first time we had sex, I thought my heart was going to burst, I felt so loved. He entwined his fingers with my own and looked me in the eyes, and planted gentle sweet kisses all over.

I thought it would be like that always, but its not even close.
As far as oral is concerned... I dont have a lot of experience with men going down on me. Also r-word related, I tend to need a lot of pushing and convincing to allow a mans face between my legs. I get spooked really easily, unfortunately. I have 69'd with him and it felt amazing... but I get really uncomfortable being so vocal

starryeyed346's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:53 PM

huh How old is this guy ? huh


I refuse to answer the age question. I just turned 20.

LandRover28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:57 PM


Does he know how to give you good oral?


My oh my, you ask a lot of questions. For your information.. I have my own issues regarding the r-word. We dated for quite a while, and he swept me off my feet and spoiled me. The very first time we had sex, I thought my heart was going to burst, I felt so loved. He entwined his fingers with my own and looked me in the eyes, and planted gentle sweet kisses all over.

I thought it would be like that always, but its not even close.
As far as oral is concerned... I dont have a lot of experience with men going down on me. Also r-word related, I tend to need a lot of pushing and convincing to allow a mans face between my legs. I get spooked really easily, unfortunately. I have 69'd with him and it felt amazing... but I get really uncomfortable being so vocal


Well I would encourage you to let him go down on you. He may know how make up for his skills between your legs. Otherwise talk to him about it. The longer you wait in the relationship, the more it's going to hurt him when you bring it up. Communicate!!!!! What's with these couples and thier lack of communication???

starryeyed346's photo
Wed 03/12/08 12:58 PM
says the single man...

LandRover28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:03 PM
Edited by LandRover28 on Wed 03/12/08 01:04 PM

says the single man...


Well that's a bit shallow. But again I encourage you to simply discusss it with him. You can talk to everyone but him, and everyone will ask you the same thing. Have you talked to him about it yet? Good luck! :smile:

starryeyed346's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:07 PM


says the single man...


Well that's a bit shallow. But again I encourage you to simply discusss it with him. You can talk to everyone but him, and everyone will ask you the same thing. Have you talked to him about it yet? Good luck! :smile:


thanks.

I stated in my original text that I sat down and talked to him about it.

OrangeCat's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:08 PM
indifferent

LandRover28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:11 PM
Practice with him. Tell what you like, to hard, to soft, too fast. When I was in high school I had a girl tell me I was too hard, fast and aggressive. I'd press to hard. She just said slow down and be softer so I did. I learned.

tanyaztoy's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:15 PM
Nobody knows better what a woman wants more than a woman. I agre with a few others. Teach him. You take the lead and hopefully he will mimic what you do.

Rose41's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:16 PM
alright! my kissing booth opens at noon tomorrow get him there and ill teach him for ya:wink: happy

no photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:18 PM
Watch Don Juan Demarco with him and tell him to pay attention to the scene where he talks about how a woman needs to be touched