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Well come on...there is a difference in a one on one conversation versus posting it on here for all to see..... i'm not saying say it so all will see. I'm saying if you like someone, let them know. I tell you what. it will drive you more nuts if you were to say by not telling them then to tell them... Hiker is right, if you do it will become uncomfortable.. Besides if they live far away that's even less reason to tell them.. What are you going to do move? or them? highly unlikely if children are involved... Sorry but i'm going tosay BS  stop being chickens and i have met alot of women that live far away and i had move for one aross state. So maybe it wont become of anything but then again who knows. I'm laughing at all the excuses, excuses,excueses
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um...because rejection is painful.  Don't you even start lumping us all together!!!!  you do what you want to, but i for one am not going to sit here and wonder everytimes some i'm interested in likes me or not. I have no shame in who i am and not afraid to show it. If i had the fear of rejection, id would of messed out on some good friends ships friendships are one thing; relationships are something else. Try being a middle aged overweight female on a dating site. All I can say it is a good thing I have a sense of humor. some guys actually seem to get offended if they get messages from women who are not cute. The non-cute really have to be careful. You can't go messaging guys as if you think you have the right to go out with men! Horrors! You are not thin! Or young! or cute! Ok , you are smart and funny as hell..but...well, you're not cute! That's why. |
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Well come on...there is a difference in a one on one conversation versus posting it on here for all to see..... i'm not saying say it so all will see. I'm saying if you like someone, let them know. I tell you what. it will drive you more nuts if you were to say by not telling them then to tell them... OK so we totally agree...I would speak my mind one on one...but not in a public format! p.s. you have mail
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thats not true at all, most times it's not even close to 50/50. you can tell if you look close enough rather it would be a yes or no. the ones that don't look and are scared to ask are the ones that have a problem. some of us can see they aren't interested in more then friends and decide it's best to not press it and ruin a decent friendship. I guess I wont ever understand then, please forgive me for being so dense. I would always look at it as a chance lost. And if they are just a friend now, how good of a friend would they be if you asked and they said no and lost you as a friend. the way i see it is that i would be flattered that they thought of me that way and would cherish the friendship even more. |
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um...because rejection is painful. Don't you even start lumping us all together!!!! you do what you want to, but i for one am not going to sit here and wonder everytimes some i'm interested in likes me or not. I have no shame in who i am and not afraid to show it. If i had the fear of rejection, id would of messed out on some good friends ships friendships are one thing; relationships are something else. Try being a middle aged overweight female on a dating site. All I can say it is a good thing I have a sense of humor. some guys actually seem to get offended if they get messages from women who are not cute. The non-cute really have to be careful. You can't go messaging guys as if you think you have the right to go out with men! Horrors! You are not thin! Or young! or cute! Ok , you are smart and funny as hell..but...well, you're not cute! That's why. (((((((((hiker)))))))))) I love you sweetie... There is someone for everyone... You and even a pain in the a$$ like me.. Somewhere, some day...  
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Well come on...there is a difference in a one on one conversation versus posting it on here for all to see..... i'm not saying say it so all will see. I'm saying if you like someone, let them know. I tell you what. it will drive you more nuts if you were to say by not telling them then to tell them... Hiker is right, if you do it will become uncomfortable.. Besides if they live far away that's even less reason to tell them.. What are you going to do move? or them? highly unlikely if children are involved... Sorry but i'm going tosay BS stop being chickens and i have met alot of women that live far away and i had move for one aross state. So maybe it wont become of anything but then again who knows. I'm laughing at all the excuses, excuses,excueses Call it what you like Shadow... Because we believe differently does't make me wrong it just means I have different responses to things.. i.e. calling bs bs in threads whereas you leave them alone... 
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um...because rejection is painful. Don't you even start lumping us all together!!!! you do what you want to, but i for one am not going to sit here and wonder everytimes some i'm interested in likes me or not. I have no shame in who i am and not afraid to show it. If i had the fear of rejection, id would of messed out on some good friends ships friendships are one thing; relationships are something else. Try being a middle aged overweight female on a dating site. All I can say it is a good thing I have a sense of humor. some guys actually seem to get offended if they get messages from women who are not cute. The non-cute really have to be careful. You can't go messaging guys as if you think you have the right to go out with men! Horrors! You are not thin! Or young! or cute! Ok , you are smart and funny as hell..but...well, you're not cute! That's why. Well this is why i think it ghreat being on the forum. You'll know who your real friends are and like I said, who knows 
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Well come on...there is a difference in a one on one conversation versus posting it on here for all to see..... i'm not saying say it so all will see. I'm saying if you like someone, let them know. I tell you what. it will drive you more nuts if you were to say by not telling them then to tell them... OK so we totally agree...I would speak my mind one on one...but not in a public format! p.s. you have mail WHERE>>>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<^^^^^^^>>>>>>>
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I'm not a chicken..It's called playing it safe..lol..If I don't mention names theres no chance of rejection which I don't respond very well to.
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Well come on...there is a difference in a one on one conversation versus posting it on here for all to see..... i'm not saying say it so all will see. I'm saying if you like someone, let them know. I tell you what. it will drive you more nuts if you were to say by not telling them then to tell them... Hiker is right, if you do it will become uncomfortable.. Besides if they live far away that's even less reason to tell them.. What are you going to do move? or them? highly unlikely if children are involved... Sorry but i'm going tosay BS stop being chickens and i have met alot of women that live far away and i had move for one aross state. So maybe it wont become of anything but then again who knows. I'm laughing at all the excuses, excuses,excueses Call it what you like Shadow... Because we believe differently does't make me wrong it just means I have different responses to things.. i.e. calling bs bs in threads whereas you leave them alone... Come on now, this is all in fun and it might get some people thinking think about, it don't hurt if someone actually listens to what i'm saying. I do respect others opinions i'm just pushing some of the shy ones
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The one I have been talking to every night since June 20th knows who he is. We plan to meet sometime in the next few months. He lives about 2900 miles away, so logistics and other issues have come up, but it will happen when things are right.
Hiker - I am in the same boat as you. There are guys out there who look past extra weight, and I passed up young a long time ago. Just be honest with them and take your time. Good luck. I agree with you Shadow, if you are interested, tell them and see where it goes. Good post. |
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um...because rejection is painful. Don't you even start lumping us all together!!!! you do what you want to, but i for one am not going to sit here and wonder everytimes some i'm interested in likes me or not. I have no shame in who i am and not afraid to show it. If i had the fear of rejection, id would of messed out on some good friends ships friendships are one thing; relationships are something else. Try being a middle aged overweight female on a dating site. All I can say it is a good thing I have a sense of humor. some guys actually seem to get offended if they get messages from women who are not cute. The non-cute really have to be careful. You can't go messaging guys as if you think you have the right to go out with men! Horrors! You are not thin! Or young! or cute! Ok , you are smart and funny as hell..but...well, you're not cute! That's why. (((((((((hiker)))))))))) I love you sweetie... There is someone for everyone... You and even a pain in the a$$ like me.. Somewhere, some day... Women love me for me..they don't need me to be a piece of ass. But guys..even the least shallow guy is driven by the visual. Us fat chicks are doomed. But just so you know, I won't ever post a thread saying How come no one replies to my e-mails? Why I am not finding anyone on here? etc. because I already know the answer. |
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Well come on...there is a difference in a one on one conversation versus posting it on here for all to see..... i'm not saying say it so all will see. I'm saying if you like someone, let them know. I tell you what. it will drive you more nuts if you were to say by not telling them then to tell them... Hiker is right, if you do it will become uncomfortable.. Besides if they live far away that's even less reason to tell them.. What are you going to do move? or them? highly unlikely if children are involved... Sorry but i'm going tosay BS stop being chickens and i have met alot of women that live far away and i had move for one aross state. So maybe it wont become of anything but then again who knows. I'm laughing at all the excuses, excuses,excueses Call it what you like Shadow... Because we believe differently does't make me wrong it just means I have different responses to things.. i.e. calling bs bs in threads whereas you leave them alone... Come on now, this is all in fun and it might get some people thinking think about, it don't hurt if someone actually listens to what i'm saying. I do respect others opinions i'm just pushing some of the shy ones Well that is a good thought.. I hope it does make some shy ones go for it.. Who knows they could find their soulmate that way... 
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thats not true at all, most times it's not even close to 50/50. you can tell if you look close enough rather it would be a yes or no. the ones that don't look and are scared to ask are the ones that have a problem. some of us can see they aren't interested in more then friends and decide it's best to not press it and ruin a decent friendship. I guess I wont ever understand then, please forgive me for being so dense. I would always look at it as a chance lost. And if they are just a friend now, how good of a friend would they be if you asked and they said no and lost you as a friend. the way i see it is that i would be flattered that they thought of me that way and would cherish the friendship even more. now this is what i'm talking about
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i woman so perfect yet doesnt know how i feel, isnt there a time and place for feelings?
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Edited by
wiley
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Tue 03/11/08 09:26 PM
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Shadow...bite me.
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The one I have been talking to every night since June 20th knows who he is. We plan to meet sometime in the next few months. He lives about 2900 miles away, so logistics and other issues have come up, but it will happen when things are right. Hiker - I am in the same boat as you. There are guys out there who look past extra weight, and I passed up young a long time ago. Just be honest with them and take your time. Good luck. I agree with you Shadow, if you are interested, tell them and see where it goes. Good post. Marie55 it's good to see you. i'm just having a little fun |
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I will take that drink, what are you serving??
and I guess I am not one of the shy ones
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lets see there is who has a crush, who you would like to meet etc etc and most come on there and say they do but wont say who it is or even tell the person. OM, how are you going to know if you don't ask If i like someone on here ill tell them. What is such the big deal????? this is not high school people Get off your ass and do something about it. I mean what is it really going hurt if you tell them? Thank you!!!I agree!! 
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Shadow...bite me. Chicken
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