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Topic: first time on this site??
Johncenawlife316's photo
Mon 03/10/08 09:35 PM
Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Mon 03/10/08 09:42 PM




Well surely emails are more then hi, but most woman don't even respond to hi, how's it going.. nice profile.. things like that.. is what I'm talkin about is all.




agreed, and it becomes tiring to get nothing back yet and to have put time and thought into a message


Yeah I agree with that, I mean I can't tell a whole lot about any one woman or guy for that matter buy reading through her or his profile etc. So for me to say hi or hello, nice profile would you like to talk some time or I'd like to get to know you better mail me back and get noting in return really does kinda hurt. Heck some times or more then some times I say nice pictures or I like your photo etc. But I don't even get a thank you etc. ohwell




"I like your photo" is not exactly scintillating conversation. Let me guess - you are emailing only the attractive women, the ones who are probably getting about 100 emails a day. Why should they write you back just because you like their photos? Everyone likes their photos.

Try - I see you like travel - I just went to Mexico. Or - You like to read - I have read all of Stephen King. Etc. See how it works?


I understand what your saying. But even though I may never say I like there photo, I may say Hi ... how's it going. If you like to talk send me a message back, kinda odd though woman have a tough time responding to even that. huh

Plus I am not gonna read some Stephen King book just to help speak to a woman, sorry that isn't me and I don't know how he would help me out etc.

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Mon 03/10/08 09:36 PM





Well surely emails are more then hi, but most woman don't even respond to hi, how's it going.. nice profile.. things like that.. is what I'm talkin about is all.




agreed, and it becomes tiring to get nothing back yet and to have put time and thought into a message


Yeah I agree with that, I mean I can't tell a whole lot about any one woman or guy for that matter buy reading through her or his profile etc. So for me to say hi or hello, nice profile would you like to talk some time or I'd like to get to know you better mail me back and get noting in return really does kinda hurt. Heck some times or more then some times I say nice pictures or I like your photo etc. But I don't even get a thank you etc. ohwell



I'm very new to all this and have to ask...are guys any better at responding to a woman's email? I am afraid to even try for fear of the rejection...ohwell


Well I always answer every one emails no matter who emails me.

It's just most woman do not even respond etc to emails.


that's not true. Don't generalize that way. I have responded to every e-mail I have gotten. All you can say that they don't respond to you and maybe you should look at your approach. Finding pretty girls and saying " I like your profile" is not going to get you anywhere. Look beyond the looks, find someone with common interests and talk about that.

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Mon 03/10/08 09:38 PM





Well surely emails are more then hi, but most woman don't even respond to hi, how's it going.. nice profile.. things like that.. is what I'm talkin about is all.




agreed, and it becomes tiring to get nothing back yet and to have put time and thought into a message


Yeah I agree with that, I mean I can't tell a whole lot about any one woman or guy for that matter buy reading through her or his profile etc. So for me to say hi or hello, nice profile would you like to talk some time or I'd like to get to know you better mail me back and get noting in return really does kinda hurt. Heck some times or more then some times I say nice pictures or I like your photo etc. But I don't even get a thank you etc. ohwell




"I like your photo" is not exactly scintillating conversation. Let me guess - you are emailing only the attractive women, the ones who are probably getting about 100 emails a day. Why should they write you back just because you like their photos? Everyone likes their photos.

Try - I see you like travel - I just went to Mexico. Or - You like to read - I have read all of Stephen King. Etc. See how it works?


I understand what your saying. But even though I may never say I like there photo, I may say Hi ... how's it going. If you like to talk send me a message back, kinda odd though woman have a tough time responding to even that. huh


If you have 25 emails sitting there and 10 of them are really intriguing, and 15 are from guys saying "hi, how's it going" - which ones are you going to answer? There are only so many hours in a day, and if you can't take the time to think of something interesting to say, then don't blame people for not responding to you. You are not giving them anything to feed off of. Hi how are you? Fine, how are you? where are you going with a conversation like that?

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Mon 03/10/08 09:38 PM






Well surely emails are more then hi, but most woman don't even respond to hi, how's it going.. nice profile.. things like that.. is what I'm talkin about is all.




agreed, and it becomes tiring to get nothing back yet and to have put time and thought into a message


Yeah I agree with that, I mean I can't tell a whole lot about any one woman or guy for that matter buy reading through her or his profile etc. So for me to say hi or hello, nice profile would you like to talk some time or I'd like to get to know you better mail me back and get noting in return really does kinda hurt. Heck some times or more then some times I say nice pictures or I like your photo etc. But I don't even get a thank you etc. ohwell



I'm very new to all this and have to ask...are guys any better at responding to a woman's email? I am afraid to even try for fear of the rejection...ohwell


Well I always answer every one emails no matter who emails me.

It's just most woman do not even respond etc to emails.


that's not true. Don't generalize that way. I have responded to every e-mail I have gotten. All you can say that they don't respond to you and maybe you should look at your approach. Finding pretty girls and saying " I like your profile" is not going to get you anywhere. Look beyond the looks, find someone with common interests and talk about that.


I see what your saying. I do go beyond looks. I even say oh I see you like this type of music or something but noting.


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Mon 03/10/08 09:49 PM
ok, johncenawlife, perhaps you are having difficulties for some reason. Women just do not like your approach or your profile , or something. But do you really think the new members welcome area is the right forum to air your troubles in? ARe you trying to discourage people before they even get started? I think this forum is a place to be welcoming, and positive, not gloomy and negative.flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 10:00 PM
WHOOT WHOOT

Johncenawlife316's photo
Mon 03/10/08 10:00 PM

ok, johncenawlife, perhaps you are having difficulties for some reason. Women just do not like your approach or your profile , or something. But do you really think the new members welcome area is the right forum to air your troubles in? ARe you trying to discourage people before they even get started? I think this forum is a place to be welcoming, and positive, not gloomy and negative.flowerforyou


I am not trying to be negative.. just being honest and giving a heads up to what this site is like, since the dude asked.

I mean surly I would like everybody time here to be positive but my hasn't been for the most part, but I am not here to ruin it for any body or any one. And no I am not trying to discourage people either.

I guess over all I am just not good with approaching woman online either, which is why I don't approach them off line because noting good comes of it, but that's my view and take.

And hey if they don't like my profile then oh well so be it.

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Mon 03/10/08 10:05 PM


ok, johncenawlife, perhaps you are having difficulties for some reason. Women just do not like your approach or your profile , or something. But do you really think the new members welcome area is the right forum to air your troubles in? ARe you trying to discourage people before they even get started? I think this forum is a place to be welcoming, and positive, not gloomy and negative.flowerforyou


I am not trying to be negative.. just being honest and giving a heads up to what this site is like, since the dude asked.

I mean surly I would like everybody time here to be positive but my hasn't been for the most part, but I am not here to ruin it for any body or any one. And no I am not trying to discourage people either.

I guess over all I am just not good with approaching woman online either, which is why I don't approach them off line because noting good comes of it, but that's my view and take.

And hey if they don't like my profile then oh well so be it.


I think you lack confidence and us chicks can smell that a mile away. Until you are feeling good about yourself and about what you have to offer a woman, you are not going to get anywhere. Just concentrate on feeling better about yourself.

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Mon 03/10/08 10:06 PM

WHOOT WHOOT


Will you marry me?flowerforyou :heart:

no photo
Mon 03/10/08 10:08 PM
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh fresh meat!!!devil devil devil

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Mon 03/10/08 10:09 PM



ok, johncenawlife, perhaps you are having difficulties for some reason. Women just do not like your approach or your profile , or something. But do you really think the new members welcome area is the right forum to air your troubles in? ARe you trying to discourage people before they even get started? I think this forum is a place to be welcoming, and positive, not gloomy and negative.flowerforyou


I am not trying to be negative.. just being honest and giving a heads up to what this site is like, since the dude asked.

I mean surly I would like everybody time here to be positive but my hasn't been for the most part, but I am not here to ruin it for any body or any one. And no I am not trying to discourage people either.

I guess over all I am just not good with approaching woman online either, which is why I don't approach them off line because noting good comes of it, but that's my view and take.

And hey if they don't like my profile then oh well so be it.


I think you lack confidence and us chicks can smell that a mile away. Until you are feeling good about yourself and about what you have to offer a woman, you are not going to get anywhere. Just concentrate on feeling better about yourself.


I feel confidence about my self and all. And no woman will ever know what I have to offer until she at least speaks to me, but that isn't happening so I guess I'm a so to speak lost cause in the dating world and just shall give up altogther.

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Mon 03/10/08 10:11 PM


WHOOT WHOOT


Will you marry me?flowerforyou :heart:
flowerforyou yesflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 10:12 PM
drinker This thread done turned into WWE Monday Night Rawdrinker

hikerchick's photo
Mon 03/10/08 10:12 PM



WHOOT WHOOT


Will you marry me?flowerforyou :heart:
flowerforyou yesflowerforyou


hooray, another JSH match!

We need a wedding bells icon!

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Mon 03/10/08 10:13 PM
Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Mon 03/10/08 10:14 PM

drinker This thread done turned into WWE Monday Night Rawdrinker


I don't think it has.

Wedding bells for the both of you are rining. drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 10:14 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Mon 03/10/08 10:14 PM
flowerforyou The ladies said that they are afraid your gonna physically abuse them John.flowerforyou Because of what happened with Chris Benoitflowerforyou

Johncenawlife316's photo
Mon 03/10/08 10:15 PM

flowerforyou The ladies said that they are afraid your gonna physically abuse them John.flowerforyou Because of what happened with Chris Benoitflowerforyou


wait he had to many head shots to his head, that was the cause of his actions, sorry.

That's not gonna happen with me, because I am not doing flying head butts off the top ropes like Benoit has.

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Mon 03/10/08 10:18 PM
Damn it Mirror. I thought you were going to marry me? Hussy.

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