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Edited by
jtip1977
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Mon 03/10/08 09:10 AM
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I keep my kid away from my dates unless I'm pretty sure there is something long term there. I don't take it lightly... If you meet a person when they are with their child, then that is the frame of reference, and what you talk about. For me? I want to get to know them, and them to get to know me, and talking about my kid comes later... and meeting my kid comes much later. On a serious note - what Lilith said....can't say it any better. Agree 100%. You can't get to know someone when the kids are around. I too keep my daughter out of my relationships unless I feel it is going to be someone I'm going to potentially have a long relationship with. That's why she's only met 2 of my "girlfriends". The first one lasted for a year, although she was a b!tch - just hid it very well, the second one was just 2 weeks ago....we'll see how long it lasts. hopefully I am right with this one. |
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JT- you quoted me before I could fix my typo...
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nothing is scarier than a woman shoving her kids on you the first, or second date. Yes you are a package, no not that fast
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I use my Doo Dawg
  
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I keep my kid away from my dates unless I'm pretty sure there is something long term there. I don't take it lightly... If you meet a person when they are with their child, then that is the frame of reference, and what you talk about. For me? I want to get to know them, and them to get to know me, and talking about my kid comes later... and meeting my kid comes much later. I agree. We as parents have an obligation to protect or children. I myself would never use my son as a means to pick up a date. Now if I was out in public and my son does something and it catches the eye of somebody and starts up a conversation, then sure if I am interested I will continue the conversation. But I would never send my child over to a stranger to try to strike up a conversation I should be doing for myself. |
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nothing is scarier than a woman shoving her kids on you the first, or second date. Yes you are a package, no not that fast Agreed. It is like almost two months if not longer before I would introduce a guy to my son. |
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Dat It's pretty Cheesy..And it's not easy being Cheesy...
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My blow up doll used to attract dates!!! ( they were all goodyear tires, unfortunatly!!!)
 
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Dat It's pretty Cheesy..And it's not easy being Cheesy... I thought it wasn't easy being green. Now it is not easy being cheesy? Man I can't keep up
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Edited by
whispertoascream
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Mon 03/10/08 09:06 AM
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My blow up doll used to attract dates!!! ( they were all goodyear tires, unfortunatly!!!) As long as you do not try to use them as kock rings
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JT- you quoted me before I could fix my typo... Ahh - sorry - fixed it for you |
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JT- you quoted me before I could fix my typo... Ahh - sorry - fixed it for you Thank you! Gotta uphold my standards, dear! I appreciate it. I'll try not to be so quick to hit reply when you're in the house...
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I'll just try not to quote you.
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I keep my kid away from my dates unless I'm pretty sure there is something long term there. I don't take it lightly... If you meet a person when they are with their child, then that is the frame of reference, and what you talk about. For me? I want to get to know them, and them to get to know me, and talking about my kid comes later... and meeting my kid comes much later. On a serious note - what Lilith said....can't say it any better. Agree 100%. You can't get to know someone when the kids are around. I too keep my daughter out of my relationships unless I feel it is going to be someone I'm going to potentially have a long relationship with. That's why she's only met 2 of my "girlfriends". The first one lasted for a year, although she was a b!tch - just hid it very well, the second one was just 2 weeks ago....we'll see how long it lasts. hopefully I am right with this one. Ya, my daughter doesn't come into the picture until around month 3 or 4... They need to fall in love with me and not her... she'll win you quicker than I will..... |
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JT- you quoted me before I could fix my typo... Ahh - sorry - fixed it for you Thank you! Gotta uphold my standards, dear! I appreciate it. I'll try not to be so quick to hit reply when you're in the house... Heh you have your own little dictionary here
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I don't have any kids so i can't so i do. However i do have an amazing Siberian husky that takes me to the ladies.
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I use my dog, and he sucks at picking up women...who am to think a kid would do any better?
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I don't have kids, but I've noticed that I do get more looks if I have kids around me
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I use my dog, and he sucks at picking up women...who am to think a kid would do any better? Lol... my dog would usually stop every time I saw a woman I found attractive... usually causing me to trip
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If somebody was trying to use there child to pick you up, would you fall for it or would you think it was rather tacky? To pick ME up??? Now there's a good strategy....!! 
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