with someone at my school.but its so hard to do it because all girls only date certain kind and they would not want to date me because of my looks and my lifestyle. Meaning i dont have a drivers license and have a good life. Also i am so sick of thinking about finding the right one every night and soo much stuff flowing through my mind that i cant fight it off. All girl ever do is just judge you and be disgust by my personal appearance when i am at school. Deep inside of me " I dont want to be on this earth right now" its so hard to be me

Girls are mean. You jus gotta find the right one.

you are still young grasshopper ! give it time the right one will come too you !

Mean or not, Life wouldn't be the same without them!!

Girls are mean but so are guys. I am about ready to ship all males to an isolated island..LOL

Just enjoy taking a breath every day hon. The rest all comes in time. You'll see

If you think you need to work on 'stuff' to be more presentable then take the time to do that. We can all do more to feel and look good for OURSELVES, not just others yanno?

Well, DUH! lol

grass hopper,,,,,man that was lowe,,,,,,,lol i can't help but to laugh at that one,,,,,,but to th post,,,,,,,,it's just part of life,,,,,,,time cures all an hopefully u find a good woman,,,,,,,,,,there is no such thing as th rite one,,,,,,,,,it's what ever works for th 2 of u,,,,,,goodlook fishing

OK, you have identified the reasons you feel girls are not attracted to you. NOW work on changing them!! Vigoroulsy attack the things that are within your control.

lol guys r the same and im sure those good girls out there think the same about us. dont sweet the small stuff,live ur life and things will fall into place.

A few thoughts from someone older and wiser who has dated a lot of women.

My first thought is that you should focus on what you have and not on what you don't have. Girls may be detecting your lack of confidence and that could be hurting your chances with them. However, it's also true that there are some girls who are drawn to shy guys.

It's not true that a guy with average looks or even below average looks can't attract a pretty girl. Women focus more on personality than men do when it comes to being attracted to someone. Men are more visual and we tend to check out how a woman looks before we even get to their personality.

Read things that send positive messages to your brain. Go to the library or the bookstore and get books that help you improve yourself. Two books I suggest because they helped me a lot - "How To Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and "The Power of Positive Thinking" by Norman Vincent Peale. These books are classics and are still read today even though they were originally written generations ago.

Lacking a car is a bit of a handicap but you can find ways to surmount that. Surely there are places within two miles of where you live where you could meet a girl for a date. Also, you will meet more girls once you figure out where they like to hang out and go there yourself to hang out. Although I dated a few girls in high school I never dated one from my own school. Check out girls from other schools.

Get a part-time job and start saving money for a car. Unless your parents don't want you to drive for some reason do what you need to do to get your drivers license. Maybe you'll meet a cute girl in driver's education.

Good luck.

It would be more peaceful, thats for sure