just grab him throw him up against the wall and kiss him ..i think he'll get the hint after that

Show him what you want and how you want it that ought to get his attention believe me

one thing I can tell you is don't degraded yourself and if they want you as a friend and really don't want to take time to try to know you better that just shows how close minded they are.

if you speak your mind as you do here you have it PERFECT.....it is usually when we like somebody TOO much that all the real stuff can't come out as we see this might make them run away.....say it all and the one will not be able to resist you.....

I am in the same situation. There is a man I have been best friends with since 1st. grade. We lost touch for a long time, but now he's back in my life, although not the way I'd like. He says he feels like we just picked up where we left off so many years ago. He tells me he loves me, kisses me, holds hands and even opens doors, the perfect gentleman. But he has also said that he only wants to be friends, for now. What the heck does that mean?

sounds like a true gentleman that has learned not to rush things, if all he is doing is what you say....if he wants to sleep with ya and then says it's just friends......RUN if you want love or stay if you just want sex....

No, sex between us has never once been mentioned.

well, tell him all your mind that you say here in just the same way.....a open line of communication can never be kept open to foster a good friendship and then maybe lovers if that door ever close, so SPEAK ALL WITHOUT ABANDON, as love if it is there will appreciate even if it hurts a little to hear sometimes.....never think that a fight or a disagreement is a bad thing and after sometime you will always be able to speak freely and true BEST buds will bloom.....and FYI then spats hardly ever happen.....the mind will always try to get ya to shut the hell up, but since when has the mind alone proved to be all that we need, but rather the secrets of the heart the bind us togther.....just me thoughts since ya asked

i like this chick....she speak her mind and would do it for sure.....

open communication solves most problems yet most of us fail miserably at it...

I get so shy sometimes.

only cause we fear the results too much....go thru this door and you will amaze yourself....it is our own fear of not getting what we want, but what is to be will be if we look at the past and see that without this we are not HAPPY anyhow!

Thank you for the advice.
The bad thing about it is I can't tell him things like that.
He is so backwards, I'm afraid I'd scare him off completely.
Besides, he knows how I feel about him.

sorry dear friend, if you count on what you think somebody knows you will rest in peace, and the hearts feeling die.....SAY IT IF IT TAKES THE SKIN OFF YA NOSE, and then you WILL come back here and say how it did work....that is a promise....has too...the fact you say youm can't say these things shows why he is saying all he is.....be your total self and if he run so be it, if he stay it will be GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD...... EITHER WAY YOU WIN AND SO DOES HE! AS TWO TOGETHER THAT CANT BE THEMSELVES IS MISERY!

YEA RIGHT..... I TAKE THAT BACK, YOU REALLY DO DON'T YOU.....

I swear I am!

The solution for me, is three shots of crown royal.