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Topic: moving on or moving
snash02's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:14 AM
Edited by snash02 on Fri 03/07/08 12:18 AM
My boyfriend just told me that by the end of the month he has to either be moved out of his apartment or he has to pay another 100 dollars a month to stay in his apartment. Well he told me is has two choices of moving in with his friends or he can move to Texas and start over, sell his business to his dad and leave. Well I don’t know what to do ... he told me i could come with him but... what I should just pack up my life and leave... drop my family and friends... I have dropped everything and moved before and I don’t know if I could do it again... AHHH! Any help please...brokenheart

Winx's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:16 AM
Do you have any interest in spending the rest of your life with him?

snash02's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:19 AM

Do you have any interest in spending the rest of your life with him?
ahh i wish but it may stil be too soon to know ... i know i love him alot

briank66's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:19 AM
All that drama over $100 a month....? Dayem....if he can't come up with a cheesy $100 (or $1,000) a month....then it's time for him to get a real job..... smokin

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:22 AM
I agree with Brian.. Well $1000 may be tough but $100 is really a drop in the bucket...

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:24 AM

I agree with Brian.. Well $1000 may be tough but $100 is really a drop in the bucket...


I think she meant a 100 dollars more

briank66's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:24 AM
Alright $500...no ?'s.....but $1,000 and I want receipts for my taxes.....

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:25 AM


I agree with Brian.. Well $1000 may be tough but $100 is really a drop in the bucket...


I think she meant a 100 dollars more


She did Mike I was referring to what Brian said... huh

briank66's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:25 AM
Edited by briank66 on Fri 03/07/08 12:27 AM


I agree with Brian.. Well $1000 may be tough but $100 is really a drop in the bucket...


I think she meant a 100 dollars more


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Winx's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:30 AM


Do you have any interest in spending the rest of your life with him?
ahh i wish but it may stil be too soon to know ... i know i love him alot


How long have you known him?

snash02's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:37 AM



Do you have any interest in spending the rest of your life with him?
ahh i wish but it may stil be too soon to know ... i know i love him alot


How long have you known him?

it has been 5 years ...

snash02's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:39 AM

All that drama over $100 a month....? Dayem....if he can't come up with a cheesy $100 (or $1,000) a month....then it's time for him to get a real job..... smokin
well it is kinda alot when you own your on biz and he is taking care of his parents because of some things that happend ...

EtherealEmbers's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:40 AM
Why does he have to move to another STATE though? Why can't he start over in the same state?

Winx's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:45 AM




Do you have any interest in spending the rest of your life with him?
ahh i wish but it may stil be too soon to know ... i know i love him alot


How long have you known him?

it has been 5 years ...


Well, to me, 5 yrs. is a very serious relationship and relocating is something to consider.

But..you say that it may be too soon to tell and it's been 5 yrs. Something may be missing in your heart if you haven't found it yet in 5 yrs. time to consider relocating.

I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

snash02's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:57 AM

Why does he have to move to another STATE though? Why can't he start over in the same state?
because he cant find any were to live and i guess there is a place down there

snash02's photo
Fri 03/07/08 12:59 AM





Do you have any interest in spending the rest of your life with him?
ahh i wish but it may stil be too soon to know ... i know i love him alot


How long have you known him?

it has been 5 years ...


Well, to me, 5 yrs. is a very serious relationship and relocating is something to consider.

But..you say that it may be too soon to tell and it's been 5 yrs. Something may be missing in your heart if you haven't found it yet in 5 yrs. time to consider relocating.

I hope you understand what I am trying to say.



well we have not been together for 5 years.. we have only been together a a handful of months ... but i have loved him for years longer

Winx's photo
Fri 03/07/08 01:04 AM
Okay, I see now that you're 19 y/o and you've been with him a handful of months. You're young and you have your whole life ahead of you.

Tantza's photo
Fri 03/07/08 03:19 AM
Well,its dificult we all know that,it deppends how much you care about him and he about you,if you two love each other enough and if its ment to be than youll somethiung out that works for both...
:wink:

snash02's photo
Fri 03/07/08 02:07 PM

Well,its dificult we all know that,it deppends how much you care about him and he about you,if you two love each other enough and if its ment to be than youll somethiung out that works for both...
:wink:
thanks ... that was sweet

yashafox_F4X1's photo
Fri 03/07/08 02:15 PM
If it's only $100 a month and they guy has a business, he ought to stick around. He could look for a place to buy around there. If I was you, I wouldn't move away from your friends and family. There's other fish in the sea and you could find someone else if you two don't end up married. It'd be a little tough emotionally, but I think you could make it pretty well where you are at, especially if you have friends and family there for your support system.

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