if your interested in someone you meet online, do # of miles matter? i
am interested in someone that lives 16hours away, but i found out he's
been talking to someone online that lives alot closer, in his state in
fact, and it confuses me!!

no it dosent matter

im not sure if it does or not, it shouldnt matter, but u never know what
matters to others.

i mean, i even gave the benifit of the doubt and gave my # out! then
today i see he's talking about someone that's not me, i kinda hurts my
feelings, now i'm thinking maybe i should NOT have given that kind of
info about me, what do u think?

I don't think the miles matter...but you have to have a lot of trust!
The bad thing is you really never know what the other person is really
doing. I was with someone and he was 9000 miles away...New
Zealand....that was way to many miles and it just would never have
worked out.
He did come to Indiana and then I flew there, but it was not meant to be
obviously. The time change between us was hard because I would stay up
all night just to talk to him, then have to work and go to
school....very hard!!
But you said that he was talking to someone else...did he tell you this
or how did you find out?

he doesn't sound like the type to be a psycho but you have to realize
that people are probably talking to more than one person while they are
here

If its someone on this dating site...I think I know who you mean. I will
never give out my home number because they can do a reverse phone number
search on the white pages on msn.com! So what you need to do is look and
see if your number pops up and if it does, so does your name and
address. It gives a map to your house and everything, all I can say is
give a cell number because they can't trace those!

i found out reading a comment in a topic, he said that they almost had
sex!! i talk to others on here but, i don't see them naked! (YET) lol

Thats the bad thing about this site...I think you have to figure out if
you are going to have an agreement not to see anyone else. If theres no
agreement, then you should be seeing whoever you want also.

i do agree w/that unsure! i should not take it to heart. i'm all the way
up the east coast, if it's meant to be, then it'll work itself out,
right!

i think it depends on how long you have been talking to each other and
how much trust and respect you have in the relationship. i wasn in a
long distance relationship he was in so cal i am a nor cal gal. it was
an 7 hour drive or a 45 minute flight depending on how you worked it
out. with communication and maturity it could work. one peice of
advice that i have always listened to was this: love is NEVER confusing.
hope that helps.

If its meant to be, it will happen! I wouldn't waste my time sitting
around though waiting for him to decide who he wants, I would go on and
find what I was looking for. Maybe then he will decide that its you that
he wants...but will it be to late?

i really like that "love is NEVER confusing". unsure i like what you
said too. i'm not worrying, lifes too short!

Life is way to short!!! Plus there are so many single men out there, so
why worry about just one of them? I say, just go about your business and
see what happens. Good luck though, I hope it all works out for you!