and i'm a jackass, this point is way since debated and forgotten.

Move to San Francisco

I don't know how else to say it, but I think you were being mean, even if your intent was to be funny.

Thanks hellkitten54 - doing anything this weekend?

Yeah, going to Chattanooga to see my sweetie.

howdy lilith...



yeah she wants me......


like the new picture by the way....

Thanks shoes4rhon - I am getting older every day!

ok once again this point is long since been debated and forgotten...........

Well aren't we all but just chill .. make friends learn the art of dating without it going anywhere .. discover the things you like about you .. just slow your roll ..

Exactly which point(s) are you referring to? The indisputable ones where you're a jackass and mean, or the current one where this guy is just trying to get some honest, helpful opinions?

Just hang out, talk to people on line here and things will happen sooner or later. There's an Instant Message button on most folk's profiles and that's a good way to communicate sometimes. I've been communicating with people in my area and outside the area and when I find someone I'm interested in locally, I ask them out. I find my faith helps too. I've been talking to the Lord about wanting relationships and that helps too. You have to show people respect and then they respect you. That can be difficult for those with a law enforcement perspective sometimes, but I found that respect was key to my two marriages. One ended in divorce (my fault) and one ended when my last wife passed away in 2006. Both relationships would have gone better if I'd been more respectful to my partner. If I'd talked to them nicer, used better manners around them, paid more attention to them, and viewed their reqwests for a kiss as a question about the status of the relationship instead of a duty or a come on or something. Good luck with your search. Being on JSH is a good start.

Just hang out, talk to people on line here and things will happen sooner or later. There's an Instant Message button on most folk's profiles and that's a good way to communicate sometimes. I've been communicating with people in my area and outside the area and when I find someone I'm interested in locally, I ask them out. I find my faith helps too. I've been talking to the Lord about wanting relationships and that helps too. You have to show people respect and then they respect you. That can be difficult for those with a law enforcement perspective sometimes, but I found that respect was key to my two marriages. One ended in divorce (my fault) and one ended when my last wife passed away in 2006. Both relationships would have gone better if I'd been more respectful to my partner. If I'd talked to them nicer, used better manners around them, paid more attention to them, and viewed their reqwests for a kiss as a question about the status of the relationship instead of a duty or a come on or something. Good luck with your search. Being on JSH is a good start.